Debra Gilmour

Portland Bridal Show A HUGE Success!

2012-01-18T12:13:00.000-08:00

With over 10,000 in attendance, mild weather (thank you Mother Nature!), and plenty of brides, bridesmaids, mothers of the bride/groom and more, the Portland Bridal Show again showcased top designers, wedding vendors, and delicacies of every kind for northwest couples preparing for their big day.

The headline event every year is of course the fashion shows. With five shows over two days, brides and bridal parties had their fill of gorgeous gowns, floral bouquets, darling children, mothers of the bride/groom fashions and even dancing groomsmen. As you can see from the dressing room photos, there were oodles of beautiful dresses!

After each show one lucky lady was selected to receive a fabulous weekend retreat at Skamania Lodge in Washington. Five ladies in all received a wonderful gift certificate for a fabulous weekend getaway!

But the best prize of the weekend was the chance to win a $24,000 "wedding of your dreams" sponsored by a host of wedding experts from gown shops and jewelers, to anchor sponsors The Oregonian and 105.1 FM "The Buzz". Everything from catering to the rings was included!

My co-host for the events was none other than Ted Douglass of 105.1 FM The Buzz, Portland's popular afternoon drive time show (shown with me and my great friend Jessica Dunn, one of the gorgeous models). As quippy as ever, Ted made my job super easy as we had the honor of emceeing the fashion shows. (Special note: Much appreciation to Anna of Anna's Bridal for my fabulous Jovani gown (aka my "Jessica Rabbit" dress!) and jewelry, and Mr. Formal for providing Ted with his matching tuxedo!)

A huge thank you to Expositions Northwest CEO Al Stehlik for putting on such an amazing event. Thanks also to show choreographer Katie Kendoll and her crew, and all of the fabulous models who made the 2012 Portland Bridal Show a wonderful success!

Tigard Times Features Debra Gilmour

2011-10-27T11:37:00.000-07:00

Fame comes back to Tigard woman, 51, in form of magazine feature

The truth be known, seeing the word "fame" associated with my name makes me nervous. First off, I don't see myself as famous.

My family will be the first to tell you that description is not how they, or, I see myself. The dog still needs to be walked, the laundry done, dinner cooked and dishes cleaned. No, there is no time for grandiose perceptions around this household!

Secondly, there are so many nefarious perceptions of fame in this current world of "reality" celebrity aspirations that such a status is not exactly one I want. There is a huge difference between the "reality" world, and the real one.

Which, is precisely what the book is about. It features 50 women from across the country with various backgrounds who decided to make changes large and small. How seemingly ordinary women when focused on a goal are capable of accomplishments despite perceptions, opinions, and advice to the contrary.

Thank you Tigard Times for making a home town girl feel special (and a few years younger)! And, now it is time to walk the dog...

MORE Magazine-287 Secrets of Reinventing Your Life Features Debra Gilmour

2011-09-22T11:28:00.000-07:00

On the day I turned fifty, I made the purposeful decision to embrace the second half of my life as an infant does-embarking in new and uncharted territory. I was full of excitement and anticipation. Suddenly I went from the aging wife and mother, to a freshman in the land of endless opportunities.

That decision has ushered in so many gifts I could not ever have imagined possible. One of those "presents of life" was the honor of being selected by MORE Magazine to be included in their first-ever book about women reinventing their lives.

From the publisher Wiley's description:
The first-ever book from MORE magazine on its core subject—your second act and how to make it happen—packed with real women's stories and strategies to help you with your own reinvention

Are you ready to create more excitement and satisfaction in your life? This book can make it happen. Combining the stories of real women (and a few celebrities) with smart advice from its editors and experts,MORE has create a resource that's part dream machine, part handbook. Whether you want to switch careers, be your own boss, start doing good in the world, or simply get in better shape, you'll find the inspiration and practical guidance you need to choose a new path and give yourself a happier, more fulfilling future.

Shares more than 50 dramatic personal stories of change from women of various ages who've successfully reinvented themselves
Filled with hundreds of how-to ideas you can put to work right now
Gives you the tips and tools to reassess, reimagine, renew, and reenergize every part of your life
From MORE magazine, read by 1.3 million women looking for more inspiration and information on fashion, beauty, health, finance, and culture

Read this book and take your first step toward positive change. With MORE Magazine 287 Secrets of Reinventing Your Life, you can start building your best tomorrow today.

Thank you MORE Magazine Editor-In-Chief Lesley Jane Seymour and staff for affording me the privilege of being included in such a prestigious publication! My mom will be particularly proud of the story starting on page 88:)

Portland Teen Idol Finale-Season 5 A Resounding Success!

2011-07-03T14:21:00.000-07:00

Families, friends, and fans filled the Tiffany Center to watch the final competition of their favorite performer as season 5 of Portland Teen Idol ended with eleven fantastic teens performing for the panel of celebrity judges. On hand were Oregon's beloved Amy Roloff of TLC's Little People Big World, and two of Portland's top music and recording celebrity judges Michael Allen Harrison and Geoff Byrd who would make the final, difficult decision as to who would win the title of 2011 Portland Teen Idol.

As emcee for the event, I had a backstage pass to all the excitement as the performers got ready for their final big show, and helping settle some last minute nerves.

Celebrity make-up artist M'chel Baxual and her team of stylists gave all the performers (and this grateful show host!) the star treatment making sure hair, make-up and fashion choices were picture perfect. Colleen Cahill of Colleen Cahill studios then put each contestant in front of her lens to work her magic for a professional photo shoot and star quality images for each finalist to include in their portfolios. Click here to view her amazing work and all the finaists: Colleen Cahill Studios-Portland Teen Idol Finale Portfolio

Then, it was show time!

The program was being filmed for a later telecast, so it presented some unique opportunities and challenges. But for the performers it was the end of a long journey to the finale. Settling the nerves of teen angst, technical details, and script changes all made for a fun time!

The talent was incredible! So impressed was Oregon Media Production Association Board Director Christopher Toyne, that he announced he would present each finalist's resume and portfolio to the membership for consideration and representation.

In the end Haley Ward of Clackamas County walked away the winner. Andy Hunt, also a Clackamas County resident was first runner-up. Each won among a plethora of other prizes, personal tutelage from Geoff Byrd in his recording studio, who will then market the demo tapes to recording studios in the biggest market of Los Angeles.

The top eleven finalists will tour throughout the summer, giving performances at venues all over the state. Congratulations to all! What a FABULOUS show!

Debra Gilmour To Emcee Finale of Portland Teen Idol 5th Season

2011-06-12T16:20:00.000-07:00

DOWN TO ONLY ELEVEN TO REPRESENT PORTLAND 11 talented teens are chosen to go on to the Portland Teen Idol Finale.

Portland, Oregon – June 3rd, 2011 – Teen program “Portland Teen Idol” announces the top eleven (11) finalists that will represent Portland over the next year during their tour. With much excitement, tears and cheers the 25 semi-finalists have been cut by more than half to just short of a dozen that will go on tour.

OMPA Executive Director Tom McFadden made a guest appearance and addressed the crowd of some 200 spectators at the Tiffany Center’s Emerald Ballroom. OMPA is the largest nonprofit association for commercial, film and TV professionals in Oregon.

Semi-final judges Ian James and Madison Shanley had tough decisions as they had the daunting task of narrowing down the list. Professional DJ and Emcee Shawn Whittmore of Event Team Entertainment (www.EventTeamEnt.com) hosted the event. Whittmore has hosted some 1200 events over his 15 year career including having once taught Bill Gates how to do the Macarena.

List of the 11 finalists in alphabetical order are: Keeley Anderson, Kiersten Bundy, Margaret Driscoll, Andy Hunt, Haley Jones, Rebecca Strott, Emily Syphus, Kara Thibault, Haley Ward, Alexis Whitney & Jereme Wilkie. The semi finalists went home but they will be able to perform one concert this summer.

Last step is the Finale occurring on Saturday, June 18th, 2011 at the prestigious Tiffany Center in their Emerald Ballroom at 1 pm. Teens will sing two songs for up to two minutes with music accompaniment in front of live judges and collectively sing a group song and at the end of the day there will be a winner, two runner ups and 8 finalists that will all go on tour. Crowd participation will help make the decision.

Debra Gilmour, two time Mrs. Oregon and 2009 national winner of the Beauties of America pageant will emcee the finale show. Gilmour, currently featured in the June 2011 issue of MORE Magazine, is well known as an outspoken advocate for alcohol and drug abuse prevention programs having served as a liaison to the Oregon Governor's Council for Alcohol and Drug Abuse Programs and the Governor's Advisory Committee of DUII. As a volunteer for the American Heart Association, she was also featured in a video for the Go Red For Women program.

Michael Allen Harrison & Geoff Byrd will be judging the final round. A local favorite, Harrison has had the honor of performing at the United Nations, at the World Peace Conference in Hague, has received awards from NASA for air play in space and is known for being a generous and passionate artist. He is also the founder of the Snowman Foundation. Byrd, in addition to many Grammy nominations, has been featured in dozens of magazines, radio & television programs and toured with Hall & Oats. He is also the founder and CEO of Kids Record Hits which will be working with the winner to develop a song as a prize.

Join Amy Roloff, Geoff Byrd, Michael Allen Harrison, Michael Harper & Tom McFadden as special guest speakers and others to be announced. Sponsors include the City of Portland, Portland Parks & Recreation, Tiffany Center, Izzy’s Pizza of Bvrtn/Hills; Celebrity Makeup Artist M'chel Bauxal; Colleen Cahill Studios, Event Team Entertainment; Hair by Virginia Dixon, Element Dance Studios. Produced by Dark Wing Productions.

Tickets for the event, including the VIP after party are on Sale now at www.PortlandTeenIdol.com. _________ _________ _________

Portland Teen Idol is an educational and experience driven talent competition and tour designed to help teens ages 13 to 19 attending school learn the entertainment business and develop skills that will ensure greater success in any industry.

Press Contact: Dennis Gleason; Dark Wing Productions – Info@PortlandTeenIdol.com 503-708-3487

Debra Gilmour Featured In "Beauty Pageant Queen at Any Age" | MORE Magazine

2011-05-24T16:12:00.000-07:00

Beauty Pageant Queen at Any Age | Health, Beauty, Fashion, Love, Careers and more - MORE Magazine

Competing in a pageant as a fifty-something was not on my bucket list of things to do. Had you told me ten years ago I would not only compete in a pageant, but would actually win a state and then national title, my reaction would most likely have been one of hysterical laughing followed by a general concern for your intuitive abilities.

But that is exactly what I did for my "fiftieth year of life golden girl" celebration. A challenge to myself, I decided to get in shape, promote a platform I had championed all of my adult life, and wear an evening gown and heels doing it.

When MORE Magazine sent an email to subscribers asking for stories of how readers reinvented themselves, I shared my foray into the pageant world as a new grandmother in my golden year. I talked about competing in and winning the 2008 Mrs. Oregon International pageant (with women some of whom were younger then my youngest child!).

In winning, it motived me to try the 2009 Beauties of America pageant for the chance at the national title and the honor to represent women fifty plus in age, speaking out about beauty and accomplishment at every age. I won!

That story piqued a curiosity for many, including the editors at MORE Magazine.

MORE sent a writing and photography team to the 2010 Beauties of America pageant, the story which appears in the June 2011 issue of the magazine (click link above). It is the first time a well known national women's magazine has covered pageantry for women over thirty-five.

Most impressive to those who enjoy competing was the unbiased and truthful manner in which the story was told. It was refreshing and humorous. The writer, Tamara Jones, gave a completely new twist on a very old pastime that so many women enjoy, but often hide for fear of professional fallout, feminist condemnation, or mockery.

My sincerest appreciation to MORE Magazine editor-in-chief Lesley Jane Seymour and staff, Pulitzer Prize winning writer Tamara Jones, and fashion photographer Eric Ray Davidson for giving an honest glimpse into the world of pageantry.

You have boldly gone where few national media outlets have gone before in exposing the positive aspects of pageantry. I know I am not alone is saying THANK YOU!

The best part of pageants? You meet the nicest people!

2011-05-16T21:54:00.000-07:00

Some of my best friends are ones I met while competing in pageantry. Lawyers, doctors, financial executives, real estate brokers, school teachers and business owners, I can count all of those professions as the occupations of friends I met in pageantry.

Surprised? It's no wonder.

The characterization one is most likely to see of pageantry isn't the volumes of volunteer hours pageant delegates and winners dedicate to their platforms or charitable causes. You don't hear about the millions of dollars raised across the country by pageant participants (young, and in my case not so young alike!) for worthy causes ranging from care for critically ill children and granting wishes for terminally ill patients, to alcohol and drug abuse prevention and treatment services, child abuse prevention, and cardiovascular disease education.

Too often we hear there are not enough good role models in the world, especially for young women. Nothing is further from the truth. The two women pictured with me are perfect examples. There are countless others.

Carolyn (Beauties of America's Western States 40s) is an accomplished lawyer. Tamara (2010 national winner of Beauties of America's 40s) a well respected financial executive. All three of us have served as Board directors for charities and share the enjoyment of pageantry.

Next time you see a titleholder in a crown or sash, think about it for a moment. The woman behind the crown may just be a well respected school teacher, the recipient of numerous awards for her volunteer work, or recovering from a life-threatening situation and sharing her story in the hopes of educating others.

Surprised? Maybe now you won't be.

KATU-TV2 Shares Debra Gilmour's Migraine Saga

2011-05-16T21:21:00.000-07:00

Click here to see KATU-TV2's new story

With the exception of a few colleagues, some close friends and family, no one was wise to a condition I have battled for over seven years now. That was the way I wanted it. At least that is what I kept telling myself.

It wasn't that I contracted this condition doing something regrettable or socially unacceptable for which I would rather forget. Truth be known that would be (in a strange sort of way) a relief. At least then I could put a finger on the "why" of how this bizarre episodic nightmare of pain reigned down on me.

But, I have no answers for why.

So I live with the "how". How do I manage my life when from one day to the next I do not know if today is the day my head begins to experience a searing pain so intense it causes me to become physically ill? How do I hide the fact that when it happens it throws me into an agony that lasts for hours, and sometimes days of pain?

With the help of a wonderful doctor and a therapy of medication to prevent migraines, I have fewer episodes and am able to see longer periods of relief. Luckily when migraines do arise, my body responds to the "rescue" medications so I am able to get the pain under control.

Some side effects are associated with the medications and are a source of frustration, such as weight gain. For me, not being able to workout as vigorously as I used to (I experience exercise induced headaches) has been a hard pill to swallow, too. But those are prices I am willing to pay.

And I've been doing it for over seven years with very few really knowing about my condition. Instead, I endured the comments about my weight gain, counseling by a well meaning colleague about my "bulimia" (nausea and vomiting often accompany migraines), and the wrath of a hostess or two for not eating or drinking what was on the menu (alcohol and numerous foods are triggers for migraines), or missing out on events altogether (sometimes I just have to decline).

Which is why many reading this are learning about my migraineur status for the first time. The bias and misunderstanding about migraine especially in the professional arena, is very often a career ender.

So I stayed silent. That is, until now.

When KATU-TV2 asked me if I would be willing to go on camera for a story on migraine medications, I took a deep breath and said, yes. It was a huge leap of faith for me. It would be the first time I publicly acknowledged myself as a migraineur.

Some cautioned me about going public, fearing the tremendous bias in the professional arena when it comes to a condition like mine. Then I thought about all the other people out there just like me who need someone, anyone, to speak up about this issue. My decision was clear.

In the past seven years while suffering migraine(s) I:

Served as the executive director for a statewide non-profit
Served as a Board Director for a national non-profit
Served as a liaison for the Oregon Governor's Council on Alcohol and Drug Abuse Programs
Served as a register lobbyist
Watched both my daughters graduate from college
Won the 2008 Mrs. Oregon International pageant
Served as a guest host for KATU-TV2's AM Northwest
Won the 2009 national Beauties of America pageant
Flew to New York City for a fashion photo shoot with MORE Magazine
Served as co-host of the 2011 Portland Bridal Show attended by over 10,000 people
Serve as a PR & governmental affairs consultant for national organizations
Participated on camera with KATU-TV2 for an interview (click here to watch the segment)

In each of those instances, unless I specifically told someone, no one knew I was having a migraine. Which it is why I am putting a face on migraine, now.

Are there days that are harder than others? Without question. But, the more educated people become about therapies, employers about abilities, and the public about the true nature of this diagnosis, the less bias others will face in the future. With 28 million nationwide, migraine suffers are everywhere you look. For that I am willing to take the risk of speaking publicly about my own experience.

For more information about migraine symptoms, causes, and therapies please click this link:

MIGRAINE HELP

Confessions of the Multi-Age Beauty Pageant Queens | Health, Beauty, Fashion, Love, Careers and more - MORE Magazine

2011-05-13T19:00:00.000-07:00

Confessions of the Multi-Age Beauty Pageant Queens | Health, Beauty, Fashion, Love, Careers and more - MORE Magazine

Coming to a newsstand near you!

MORE Magazine was curious. So they decided to come to the 2010 Beauties of America pageant last August to see for themselves why older women are competing in and enjoying pageants past age 40. What a privilege to be included in the online teaser for the print article coming out May 24.

Stay tuned!

BOTOX For An 8 Year Old? Don't Blame Pageants!

2011-05-13T17:26:00.000-07:00

The story was astonishing to say the least. The headline?

ABC-News: Mom Gives Botox to 8-Year-Old Daughter: How Young Is Too Young?

At first I thought it was a joke. Surely someone was trying to bait pageant participants into a discussion about cosmetic enhancements. Apparently not.

The rationale given by the aesthetician/mother for regularly injecting her own 8 year old daughter with Botox? She wanted to give her child a leg up in beauty pageants. "I'm not the only one doing it," the mother states oh so matter of fact in the interview that appeared on ABC-TV's Good Morning America program.

So the public is left to believe pageants, already unfairly characterized by die-hard feminists and media pundits as vacuous and pretentious, are the cause of this seriously disturbed mother's obsession with injecting neurotoxins into her child's dimples/"wrinkles" to help her win a beauty pageant crown.

Sorry, America, I am having none of it. This is not a story about pageants. Not by a long shot.

This is a story about a woman who admitted on camera to obtaining her stash of Botox through less than proper channels, to put it delicately. It is about a woman abusing her aesthetician's credential. And, it is about a woman who is violating the law regarding Botox injections.

But, those are not her worst offenses.

No, those pale in comparison to the real crime in this story; the failure to first nurture, care for and protect her child's physical, mental and emotional well being. The offense of failing to be a responsible parent, of failing to recognize her own obsession with appearance, and using her own child as a vehicle to try and cast her own inner demons about appearance.

This is about a parent making the most reprehensible of decisions. A decision that will have long term emotional and physically unknown consequences for her child.

Pageants have over the years given thousands upon thousands of young women the opportunity to go to college affording them careers as doctors, lawyers, financial professionals, and corporate executives. Some, such as Diane Sawyer, Oprah Winfrey, Gretchen Carlson, and many others have highly successful careers in the media.

But winning a pageant is only part of the experience.

For every woman that wins, there are many more that do not. The experience every pageant participant gains is in trying something new, taking a risk, learning to speak publicly, giving back to her community through her platform, and making friends with women they might never know otherwise are just a few of the benefits of pageant participation.

There is a saying in the pageant world, you can change the dress, or try a new hair style, but it is who the girl is on the inside that will determine the winner.

Pageants are no more responsible for this hideous abuse of a child then major league sports is responsible for the proliferation of the illegal use of steroids in student athletes. Unfortunately in this story, an eight-year old little girl is already on a downward trajectory unless someone steps in and stops this train wreck.

Make not mistake about it however, pageants are not the reason for her tough road ahead.

Anna's Bridal Gives Local Brides The Royal Treatment Regardless of Their Age

2011-04-29T20:26:00.000-07:00

I admit it, I love weddings. As a young mom I watched on live TV as Prince Charles married Lady Diana Spencer at what was well before the crack of dawn (albeit thanks in part to a very colicky three-month old little girl who was having a particularly rough night), and was thrilled to see all the pageantry.

So when Anna of Anna's Bridal called to ask if I would model in a television segment for her bridal salon about age appropriate wedding gowns I was honored to be the 50s plus "bride." In a well timed coincidence the segment aired today on Fox 12 TV's Better Oregon program right after the royal wedding of Price William and Kate.

Regardless of the age of the bride (or her royal status), Anna's Bridal shows brides how to look perfect on their special day. To watch the segment click on the link below, go to "Top Stories", then "Wedding Tips, How To Pick The Right Dress" to see how you can look beautiful on your wedding day no matter what your age!

Anna's Bridal Age Appropriate Wedding Gowns

Lessons of Spring

2011-04-21T09:58:00.000-07:00

They say hope springs eternal. For those of us in Oregon, we are clinging to hope because spring has thus far eluded us. The gray, cold, rainy days have become too much for even the heartiest of natives of this rain saturated state.

In Oregon we are so used to the rain that unless and until it is coming down in proverbial buckets, most of us don't even bother with an umbrella (it makes spotting the visitors that much easier). There is a standing joke in Oregon; there are two seasons here-cold rain, and warm rain.

We do just about anything any other person would do outside, only we do it with water falling down around and on us (exception being I still require a 50 degree minimum for the top to go down on my convertible with no chance of rain in the sky). Softball, bike riding, weddings, social events, gardening, you name it, it happens in the rain in Oregon.

Which leads me to a very important lesson from spring of 2011. Colder than normal has thus been spring this year. Not cold enough to snow mind you, that would actually warm my heart to see a blanket of white covering everything. No, it has been just cold enough to send a shiver to every bone in my body while getting soaked as I go through the machinations of my day to day life.

With head down (it helps to keep the rain drops from rolling off my jacket hood on to my face) and saturated gloves hanging on the the dog's leash as we dutifully go for our daily stretch, I hardly even noticed a neighbor (I had never seen her outside before) a few blocks away tending her garden in the front of her house. Jake the Wonder Dog and I logged our daily loop around the neighborhood.

As we rounded the corner and headed back I suddenly heard a cry for help. Looking around it was not apparent to me who needed help as I saw no one but the lady dutifully weeding in the rain. Again a cry for help came only this time I could see through the water dripping off my soaked jacket hood the neighbor who appeared to be in a quite awkward position on the ground.

Jake and I sped up to her to find she had slipped in the mud. Mind you this is not that unusual for Oregonians, embarrassing, but no unusual.

But, in this case the poor woman was clearly in a lot of pain. "I had surgery two weeks ago on my knee and I slipped and cannot get up, please help me!" she cried. I asked her what I could do. She pleaded for me to help get her to her feet (at this point I had no idea what her ability to stand was), and told me what happened.

With a command to Jake, he sat as I pulled a neighbor I did not know and had never met to her feet, hopeful I was not causing more pain to an already very damaged knee. Together we got her upright.

In tears she relayed to me how she and her husband were moving the next day, their house still for sale (victims of the economic downturn). At sixty-five years of age her entire life was about to change. She was trying to tend to her beloved garden one more time before she had to leave it for good.

As I brought her little gardening bench into her garage and hauled the weed bucket to the refuse area on the side of the house, she held Jake's leash. He guarded over her until I could help her up the steep walk of her driveway. I could see she was grateful, and Jake brought to her a gratitude as he "cared" for her.

It was also apparent this was not the ending she had in mind for this last day in her beautiful garden. We said our goodbyes, two strangers who would never meet again, and Jake and I headed for the home.

In life it seems we just go about our business, often in hopes the routines we establish will somehow ensure life will follow in a logical order. Today I learned in the order of it all lies underneath a very fragile existence.

Spring has been a long time in coming to Oregon this year. But I learned the sunshine of the soul can do much to warm the otherwise cold existence as we wait. I also learned that if we wait too long, we may never get to know someone who could enrich our life in ways we can't imagine.

Don't wait for life to happen to you, make it happen with you.

Loved Ones Lunch With My Second Grade Niece

2011-03-09T17:01:00.000-08:00

When the call came asking, "Auntie Deb would you please come to my school for Loved Ones Day?" I was thrilled. My niece Emily is a second grader and loves everything about learning and school so getting to share this day with her was a real treat for me.

Knowing she is only in second grade I was pretty sure if I got asked a question, I should be able to field it without too much of a problem. (This also quelled my recurring nightmare of a knock on the door informing me someone made a mistake and I have to return to high school algebra and repeat the class!)

Loved Ones Lunch saw moms, dads, grandparents, aunties, uncles and significant people in these children's lives share a bit of their day, giving us a glimpse of what it is like to be a school child in the year 2011. Though it was decades ago, so much was as familiar as when I was a school girl ("a gazillion years ago" according to my little expert!).

After getting her lunch, Emily, her mom (my baby sister Sara), and I enjoyed chatting up her classmates and discussing the up coming talent show. Next, Emily took mom and me down the cooridor to show me her beautiful artwork hanging throughout the halls.

Of course it was easy to spot Emily's self portrait. From several feet away I laid eyes on my little niece's artistic rendering when I saw high above a painting of a little girl with long flowing brown hair and a HUGE smile! I knew in an instant this was Emily's!

Perhaps I am slightly biased, but as she pointed out her various pieces of work it was apparent to me we have another talented artist in the family. Emily is following in the footsteps of her Uncle Jack (my brother), and cousins Hilary and Meg (my two girls whose works I still have in a special folder!).

Next stop was the book fair! Emily is a huge fan of reading and the school book fair was to her what walking into a cupcake shop is to me. So many choices!

As she met up with friends, lobbied mom for one more book, and made a list of future works to add to her collection, Sara and I watched all the energetic children dart back and forth sharing their new purchases.

Soon it was time for class to convene as parents and loved ones headed out. Emily was not so happy to see it was time to say goodbye. Mom and I are already working out another date for an "auntie and Em" day.

Thank you, Emily for inviting me to be a part of your special day at school! I had so much fun!

Double the Fun! Mrs. Oregon & Washington International Pageants!

2011-02-27T11:40:00.000-08:00

Last night it was an evening of double pleasure as ladies from Oregon and Washington competed for the titles of Mrs. Oregon & Mrs. Washington International. Looking positively resplendent as they performed their final duties as Mrs. Oregon and Miss Oregon respectively, Deanna Bebeau joined her sister queen Monica Atkinson to kick off the show as the delegates introduced themselves to the audience.

I admit it up front. I am slightly biased when it comes to Deanna and Monica. Coming to know both ladies as the kind, wonderful women they both are (whom I am privileged to call friends), it was with a pang of sadness I watched both take to the stage for the last time as Oregon's queens. They were leaving very big shoes to fill (Pictured with me are Monica and Crystal Gregg, Miss Oregon Int'l 2011).

The Mrs. Washington pageant is now also under the direction of Lesley Nardini, it was the first time the Oregon and Washington pageants were held together. One thing was clearly evident, the northwest has some of the most accomplished and beautiful women in the country.

Each lady had the opportunity to tell the audience a bit about their platform as they were introduced on stage during the individual interview portion of the show. Next came the fitness competition. The ladies donned in sneakers and workout attire had a chance to show the judges they may be wives and moms, but they also know how to stay in shape!

My favorite part of the pageant, the elegant evening gown competition, was a colorful display of fabulous gowns. Escorted by their husbands on stage the delegates had one final opportunity to dazzle the judges for the evening. Seeing Carol Milliron again was a special treat (pictured-Carol was the eventual 1st runner up for Mrs. Washington Int'l).

Of course backstage was where the real fun was had as the ladies helped each other get ready and waited their turn. During intermission I had a chance to go back and see some dear friends, meet some new ones, and of course my "twinie" sister queen, Deanna! That is Sandra (2009), Mary (2003), Dee Dee (1991), and our newest Haz-Bin Club member Deanna (2010) in the back.

We even had a Beauties of America queens reunion of sorts as former national queen Carol Milliron America's 50s 2008 (and the lovely lady who passed the crown on to me in 2009!), Tamara Wissbaum, America's 40s 2010, Oregon's 30s 2010 Amy Pludeman, Oregon's 40s 2009 Deanna and I got together for some pictures and reminiscing of fun times in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina (L to R: Carol, Tamara, me, Amy).

Returning to the stage for their final walks Deanna and Monica showed the audience why these ladies charmed the hearts of everyone they met during their year as titleholders. Next it was time to crown the newly selected Miss Oregon, Crystal Gregg, and her sister Teen Oregon International, KristinWirfs.

Finally, it was time to find out who the new Mrs. Oregon and Washington International queens would be! Two beautiful women had their lives changed in an instant as Kimberlee Buckingham, Mrs. Oregon International 2011, and Laura Hunter, Mrs. Washington International 2011 learned they had won their respective titles.

The most moving moment of the evening was the introduction of the Jane Thomas Memorial, to be awarded to Mrs. Washington International. Lovingly her husband explained his beautiful wife, Jane Thomas, Mrs. Washington International 1995 lost a valiant and courageous fight with a rare form of cancer just months earlier, on September 17, 2010.

One of Jane's last wishes was to watch her crowning video a final time with her husband, telling him it was one of the best days of her life. Following her wishes her husband established the Jane Thomas Memorial Award along with her sister Mrs. Washington International queens to provide a cash award for future Mrs. Washington's, to assist them in preparing for nationals. Laura was the first recipient of the award.

One thing is certain, with a FABULOUS Haz-Bin Club in both Oregon and Washington behind them as they head to nationals, these ladies are going to have the best cheerleading squad a queen could ask for! Pictured L to R: Dee Dee Brant-1991, Lesley Nardini-1997, Kym Wylder-2000, Mary Nelson-2003, Tamara Wissbaum-2007, me-2008, Sandra Herder-2009, Deanna Bebeau-2010, and Kimberlee Buckingham-2011

Without exception the sorority of the northwest queens is one of fun, support, friendship, and love. Congratulations, Kimberlee and Laura, and Crystal and Kristin. You have a life changing year ahead. We will be right there along with you every step of the way!

Portland Bridal Show Fashion Event Is All "The Buzz"!

2011-01-31T11:10:00.000-08:00

With nearly 10,000 people in attendance over the course of two days, and five fashion shows to display the latest and greatest in bridal fashion, floral design, jewelry and accessories, the Portland Bridal Show was a fabulous success for everything wedding!

As co-host for the fashion shows, I had my work cut out for me. Five shows in two days is a lot of talking, even for me! But, I had the best possible co-host at my side who made the entire weekend a breeze.

Terry Boyd, half of Portland's top morning radio duo, Nelson and Terry of FM 105.1 The Buzz, was right there to make my job easy! For those who follow him, Terry is normally donned in jeans or racing gear. But, he was a great sport showing all of Portland he knows how to "clean up" in his tuxedo provided by Mr. Formal. With a gorgeous Jovani gown and jewelry provided by Anna's Bridal, I felt like Cinderalla all weekend!

As we got the show started one thing was clear, brides in the northwest will look spectacular this year! But the best surprise of the weekend were the prizes given away!

After each show "The Boss" and creative genius behind the Portland Bridal Show Al Stehlik was on hand to bring a lucky bride on stage for a real treat. Skamania Lodge provided a "weekend for two" package for one lucky bride and her groom-per show! Five lucky ladies and their new husbands will each spend a weekend being pampered and dining in style courtsey of Skamania Lodge.

Everyone has a chance to enter the "Ultimate Bridal Giveaway", an almost $20,000 prize package for one lucky winner to have the wedding of her dreams! The winner will be announced on 105.1 The Buzz morning radio program, The Nelson and Terry Show, very soon!

Of course for me I loved all the fashions, the darling little children dressed up in their fancy attire and getting to wear my beautiful gown.

But, anyone who knows me knows exactly where I headed after it was all over. That's right, towards the delicious food area for some delectible wedding cake!

Thank you to the Portland Bridal Show CEO Al Stehlik, show coordinator Katie Kendoll and her wonderful team, all the gorgeous models and my co-host Terry Boyd for making this year's Portland Bridal Show one to remember!

Christmas In Our Nation's Capital!

2011-01-07T20:57:00.000-08:00

This year marked a first for us. With our youngest in Washington, DC having just started a new job, Hilary coming home to Oregon to celebrate the holidays was not an option. It would mean for the first time in the girls lives, we would not all be together as a family for Christmas.

Imagining my youngest daughter all alone for Christmas was nearly more than this mother could take. After speaking with her older sister it was clear what we needed to do. My husband got online and booked a trip. We would spend Christmas in our nation's capital!

We touched down to a chilly but sunny welcome in Washington. A dusting of snow had the entire region looking Christmasy. The Potomac River had already begun to ice over from the considerably cold weather. It was the perfect welcome for our celebration!

Our welcome got better as our reservation at the gorgeous Churchill Hotel was upgraded and we found ourselves enjoying a suite with a fabulous view of the old Russian Embassy across the street from the hotel in Washington's Dupont Circle.

After a day to rest from a full day of travel, we were ready to see the sites. We were immediately in for a special treat.

Hilary had arranged a VIP tour of the US Capitol Building for us with one of her congressional staff colleagues.

Zach gave us a unique perspective of the many historic corridors and rooms and shared some of the lessor know but much intriguing lore held within its walls. Some of the highlights of our tour were standing on the floor of the House Chamber where so many presidents have given their State of the Union addresses, standing on the exact spot that is the precise center of Washinton, DC (that is Zach with me standing on the magic spot) where rumor has it if you don't remain too long and make a wish, is supposed to be a lucky spot, and viewing the original chamber of the Supreme Court.

Next, it was off to Mt. Vernon to experience Christmas at George Washington's home. The sun was shining, the air was cold, but the trip was so very much worth it!

Apparently George Washington enjoyed making Christmas special and was known to import exotic animals such as camels to the farm for the family and guests to enjoy.

The gardens, while not in bloom, were large and provided all the fruits, vegatables and other items necessary for life at Mt. Vernon.

Walking up to the home along the old gravel driveway we had the chance to see one of the turkeys recently "pardoned" by the president at Thanksgiving. He appeared to be quite pleased with his current living arrangements.

Making our way to the inside of the main manor we got a special treat. Curators hold a special part of the home, the third floor, off limits except during the December holidays. Cam and I had the privilege to see Martha Washington's private bed chamber, and the rooms of her children and grandchildren who resided with her and the nation's first president.

We then walked the grounds taking in the spectacular views of the afternoon as the sun began to set over the Potomac. We also paid our respects to President Washington and his First Lady at the family burial crypt.

I must say it was a very awe inspiring experience to be standing within mere feet of the final resting place of the man that lead our forebearers to victory, establish this great country, and become our first president.

It was a testament to the love he had for his beloved wife Martha that in his will President Washington made provisions that his wife be placed right next to him in their final resting place, together.

The next day was a full one as Hilary escorted us around the city to visit the presidential monuments and various other hidden treasures of our nation's capital. Christmas Eve dinner we enjoyed a delicious treat at one of the local bistros in Hilary's neighborhood. On que the snow began to softly fall as walked back to Hilary's house before retiring for the evening.

Christmas Day we headed back to Hilary's for a delicious Christmas breakfast and opening presents.

In Christmases past, both on the eve of and Christmas day I spent a lot of time in the kitchen. So this year it was quite a change of pace for me.

After some family time, rest and relaxation at our suite, we headed to dinner at the Churchill Hotel dining establishment. We had a delicious Christmas meal as the snow flurries whirled outside. It was a wonderful Christmas dinner with our daughter!

At nightfall we decided to take a walk to see the official White House Christmas tree and the fifty state trees. Then we walked the blocks around the White House to take in all the beautiful decorations of the historic buildings in the immediate area. It was a wonderful day celebrating in a manner I never thought possible.

With so much history and art at our fingertips, the next day we decided to hit more of the sites and made our way to the National Museum of Natural History.

As a certified sparkle girl I was thrilled to take in the gorgeous Harry Winston collection, and view with my own eyes, the Hope Diamond.

For this amatuer rock hound the Smithsonian's exhibit of gemstones was exquisite. Cam and I spent much time admiring the incredible display. In fact, I took so many photos my camera's battery died.

Luckily, the Smithsonian had a wonderful coffee table book for sale in the gift shop which contained gorgeous photographs of all the delightful sparkling goodies on display. Santa decided it would make a great, late Christmas gift!

Every time I pick it up and glance at the pages I am still amazed I was so lucky to have veiwed so many fabulous pieces!

Hilary was like a child in a candy shop visiting the dinosaurs, some with sinus cavities bigger than her entire head. She never demonstrated interest in them as a youngster, but clearly I missed something (hmmm, the things you learn after your offspring leaves home).

The day ended with a trip through the National Gallery of Art. I could spend days in that building. Though created centuries before, it was amazing how the art so universally transcended language and cultural differences.

Priceless pieces including works by many of the well known masters filled the various gallery rooms. Viewing works dating back to the 1300-1400s left me taken aback by the vivid detail and incredible mastery of capturing minute detail of face and form.

As Snowmageddon II threatened to cover our nation's captial with more of the white stuff, we spent one last lunch visiting with Hilary before she headed back to work, and we to the airport in hopes the weather would hold off long enough for us to make our flight back home (luckily for us, it did).

Though it never occurred to me to visit Washington, DC during the holidays, I have to say it was a truly magical time to be in our nation's captial. It was without a doubt a Christmas with our daughter that I will always remember!

Recognizing the Face of Drug Abuse

2010-12-07T10:49:00.000-08:00

In the alcohol and drug abuse prevention, treatment and recovery field it has long been known the disease of addiction does not discriminate. Much as we would all feel better about things if we could just put a face on addiction and then go after that source, the truth is that face could be your neighbor, spouse, family member or friend.

Doctors, lawyers, teachers, teenagers, and factory workers have all become acquainted with each other in residential treatment facilities across the country. When it comes to addiction, it looks like anyone.

As I have learned in my years of addressing this issue almost everyone I have encountered have their own story to tell of a family member, friend, loved one, or themselves who have struggled with addiction. Most recently a friend who is suffering the loss of a beautiful young sister.

Today, a story hit the newswires that shows just how deceptive the face of addiction can be (Copied from Associated Press).

NEW YORK -- New York City authorities say five Columbia University students are charged with selling drugs on campus and at fraternity houses.

Special Narcotics Prosecutor Bridget Brennan and Police Commissioner Raymond Kelly said Tuesday that the students and three off-campus suppliers have been arrested and indicted. They say most of the sales took place at three fraternity houses.

The five-month investigation began in July. Authorities say undercover officers bought cocaine, marijuana, Ecstasy, Adderall and LSD. In some cases, the LSD was in breath mints and candy.

Authorities say one of the off-campus suppliers plotted to kidnap a pair of rival cocaine traffickers.

These were educated young people, by all accounts the best and the brightest. What motivates a person with all the advantages of a top notch academic opportunity to be attracted to the intoxicating effects of drugs? What do the effects of these drugs provide that are otherwise missing from these students lives? How could it happen here?

The answer is as simple as it is complex, and it may make you uncomfortable.

How does it start? According to subjects responding to inquiries while undergoing residential treatment for addiction, it often begins with a cigarette, or a beer, though recent studies show many young people are skipping the usual first cigarette and going straight to marijuana.

At what age does it start? The average age of first use is 13 years of age. Children are making the decision to use drugs and alcohol while they are still in grade school! They may not start to dabble until later but that decision making process is strong in grade school.

What can parents do? First and foremost, take a good long look at the patterns and behaviors you are setting as an example for your own children. Do you reach for a glass of alcohol as soon as you get home from work?

Does you child see that alcohol is an important part of your daily or weekly habits? If so, consider why and look at alternative activities to reduce stress and relax.

Look into the habits of the parents of their friends, too. The opinions of the parents your child associates with can have lifelong consequences for your child.

Many parents want to be the "cool mom or dad" who are actually enablers providing alcohol as a means to gain acceptance for their child in the group, while professing to teach them "how to drink". Know that you cannot teach a child how to drink responsibly while at the same time exposing their brains to the intoxicating effects of alcohol or drugs.

It is a biological fact the adolescent brain is not completely formed until approximately age twenty-two, making them very susceptible to the effects of alcohol addiction prior to that age. Consuming alcohol before age sixteen greatly increases a child's likelihood for a lifelong battle with addiction by the time they reach adulthood.

Remove alcohol consumption as the focus of parties or events, i.e., using "can't wait to party" as a euphemism for drinking. When alcohol consumption is the focus it is a clear message to children that this practice is important to you. Is this the example you want to set?

Take responsibility for setting the expectations and examples you want your child to follow. When asked who was the most influential person in their lives, grade and middle school children most often cite their parents. You are your child's best advocate.

As for this tragic story, it is all too common. The only difference in this particular instance? The veneer of alcohol and drug abuse was lifted to show the truth. Addiction does not discriminate.

A colleague of mine once said, "You will suffer your child's anger much better than you will suffer their death." She would know...

Passing On The Secrets

2010-12-02T15:17:00.000-08:00

Three years ago I decided to enter a pageant. To my complete amazement I won the Mrs. Oregon International pageant. A year later I entered the Beauties of America pageant and was honored beyond belief to win the national title for women 50 plus.

With those experiences I learned there are tricks and secrets that beauty queens have known for years. In my latest submission to MORE.com I share with readers some of the best kept secrets. I hope you like the story and click on the "I liked it" button at the end of the article on MORE's website: "Beauty tips from an aging pageant queen"

Model Call For The Portland Bridal Show Slated For December 5th!

2010-11-14T10:48:00.000-08:00

Are you looking for an opportunity to gain modeling experience, or just have a great time dressing up? Portland's premier bridal event, the Portland Bridal Show will be auditioning for models to include in the 2011 show.

If you are interested in auditioning to be a model here is what you need to know:
   DATE: December 5, 2010 starting at 1:00 p.m
   LOCATION: Benson High School, NE Avenue and Irving Street, Portland at the "new" gymnasium
   SIZE REQUIREMENTS:
   Males (Grooms, Groomsmen, and Fathers of the Bride) 5' 10" or taller
   Females (Bride & Bridesmaids) 5' 8" and up, sizes 10, 12, and 14 (note: gown sizing typically runs a tad smaller than regular sizes)
   Females (Mothers of the Bride) 5' 6" and up sizes 10 through 16
(Ladies, please wear a dress or skirt and blouse with heels.)

There is no financial compensation involved, but participation is a great opportunity to gain runway experience with a professionally choreographed fashion show, and have lots of fun wearing the latest bridal fashions!

Any questions? Please call Katie Kendoll at (503) 760-4800 or go to the Portland Bridal Show website by clicking here: Portland Bridal Show.

See you there!

Mrs. Oregon 2011 Pageant Filled With Surprises, And A Final Fond Farewell

2010-11-10T18:05:00.000-08:00

Since the 1970s the Mrs. Oregon pageant has crowned beautiful women who represent our state and go on to compete in the Mrs. America pageant.

For the past decade the lady who made that happen was Libby Crawford. Tiny in stature but larger than life in personality, Libby's single goal was to make every woman's experience special as they became a part of the Mrs. Oregon family. In ten years she did that, and so much more.

This past Sunday was no exception as eight beautiful ladies from across Oregon vied for the title of Mrs. Oregon. The women covered every corner of the state from Klamath Falls to Washington County and parts everywhere in between. Each brought her own special style to the judges making the decision very difficult.

Behind the scenes at pageant central it was business as usual as the ladies prepared for the show. With former Mrs. Oregon sister queens Patricia Nuttbrock, Lisa Menken, and Taryn Stastny, we prepared the ladies and got ready as show time approached. Also on hand was the star of the show Mrs. Oregon 2010 Joy Huston who received a bit of help backstage from Libby's darling son, Thomas.

Then it was lights, curtains, action! The ladies did a fantastic job! Making the event all the more special was the knowledge this would be Libby's last pageant as director.

But first things first, it was time to crown a new Mrs. Oregon!

MC Chet Buchannan had the priviledge of announcing the final judges decision. Mrs. Eugene Shakelah Morgan, a mother of five, community volunteer and business owner was named 2nd Runner-Up. 1st Runner-Up was Mrs. Portland, Delicia Wistrand a busy wife and mom. Finally it was time to learn what everyone was waiting to hear-the name of the winner!

Aspen Droesch of Rogue Valley was the lucky lady to hear her name called as Mrs. Oregon 2011. Aspen, an elemetary school teacher, will represent Oregon at the Mrs. America pageant to be held at the beautiful and historic Greebrier Inn located in the gorgeous mountains of West Virginia.

The audience gave a very speical round of applauds to Mrs. Crawford as she made her announcement she was leaving the pageant as executive director, and her reasons for bidding a final farewell.

Sensing it was time and having an agenda that focuses her time more closely on pressing priorities related to her children and education issues, Libby is taking her passion to Salem and will advocate for children with special needs education including those of her own daughter, Katie.

Taryn Stastny was introduced by Libby as the new Mrs. Oregon director, as Taryn took the helm and crowned her first new queen. Then it was time for Libby to let her hair down after the show and have some fun!

Congratulations to Aspen, Mrs. Oregon 2011. And to Libby, the very best of luck in your future plans. Salem had better be ready!

Fun At The Roloff Family Farm & Pumpkin Patch!

2010-10-29T17:18:00.000-07:00

Many across the country have fallen in love with Oregon's Roloff family on TLC-TV's "Little People, Big World", and seen the family's amazing farm and pumpkin patch. So when my husband and I had a playdate with our granddaughter Maddie, we knew exactly where we were heading for a fun, family trip.

With Maddie tucked safely into her car seat, this morning we hit the road to Helveticia, Oregon to pick out the perfect pumpkins at the Roloff Family Farm. We arrived to be greeted by the wonderful farm staff who pointed out all of the fun attractions.

First stop for Maddie? The petting zoo to visit with the baby goats. Maddie was quick to point out the baby goat that was "not behaving" as it cleverly tried to wiggle through the fence toward her. She decided to keep her distance!

Next stop was to the exotic area where Maddie got to watch a baby lion and baby tiger playfully wrestle with each other. As she watched the small cats play, you could see Maddie was surprised at their smaller size.

Then it was off to the haywagon for a trip around the Roloff Farm. Maddie was thrilled to see Miss Amy and ride around to get a front seat view of all the animals and attractions. Though the animals were her favorite Molly's castle was a close second.

Finally it was time to pick out some pumpkins. We grabbed a wagon and headed for the field to get three pumpkins of very specific sizes.

After securing the perfect big, medium and small pumpkins it was time to head toward home. Maddie got one last goodie as she got to "trick or treat" on the way out as the staff said goodbye.

Thank you Amy & Matt Roloff and the Roloff Family Farm staff for making our family outing a fun, fabulous one. See you next year!

Age and Attractiveness, Beauty Not Just The Domain Of The Young

2010-09-29T10:27:00.000-07:00

A funny thing happened on the way to living my life. Apparently I forgot to read a very important manual on "the how, what, and when" of living through the ages of human life.

You know the one. It is that magic missive everybody knows of, no one has ever seen, and is referenced as often as is necessary to remind us of why we should not be doing this, wearing that, attempting something, etc.

The one that says we have to cut our hair, throw out that cute dress, or otherwise quit engaging in an activity deemed off limits for one of the age of (fill in number here). It is the rule book for how one should behave at each particular stage of life.

This would explain why, when I got down on the floor and interacted with my children at their level, eyes rolled and whispers of spoiling them as well as predictions of other more sinister outcomes could be heard from time to time. Luckily both children in question survived my parenting skills. Both have gone on to become educated and productive adults despite my apparent lack of knowledge that my behavior was clearly off limits for someone of my age (twenty-seven at the time).

Perhaps this is what continues to affect me as I move merrily along into what is supposed to be, well, I'm not sure what this stage of my life is supposed to be because I have yet to read the manual of how to live my life at age fifty-three. In fact, the older I get the more evident it is I am blissfully unaware of the limitations of my age.

Recently, I was faced with a moment that left me dumbfounded; I called for an appointment. Easy enough, you would think. I was asked my age. Very clearly I stated, fifty-three.

I was asked to repeat the response. Assuming the receptionist did not hear my reply, I again stated my age. To which she responded, "You don't sound fifty-three!"

A number of thoughts began to rush through my mind. Just what is fifty-three supposed to sound like? Should my voice sound shaky, raspy, snippy? At this point I was really hoping to somehow get my hands on a copy of this mysterious book of "all you need to know about the ages of your life."

It was then I came face to face with what so many of us do. It is called a stereotype.

But how did we get here? My research began in earnest. What I found was astounding. One such article revealed what many who have hit the age of forty and beyond have known for some time, confidence is a very important key to attractiveness (Click here for the link to the article). Other studies revealed similar results. Age and attractiveness are weighted differently by individuals of various ages with physical attributes being the key, the younger the participant.

Most of the limitations perceived for someone of my age are standards set by those who have not hit this wonderful age, yet. They haven't had that defining moment in life when one realizes it is not so much about seeking the approval of others, but about the assurance in knowing yourself.

Beauty is not just a measure of physical appearance. It is a condition of confidence that radiates in a manner that cannot be bottled, or perfected in a procedure. Hollywood has given us countless examples of this, young and not so young, alike.

So I will continue to go happily into the remainder of my life, void of the playbook for knowing what I am supposed to be looking, acting, and sounding like at (fill in age here). I am confident enough in myself to know beauty is not a condition of age, it is a perception of confidence in ourselves.

Apparently, it also resonates in one's voice.

Survey Reveals 17 Million Americans Drive Drunk

2010-09-23T08:44:00.000-07:00

This is a truly frightening statistic and one that should alarm everyone. While some laud the reduction in total drunk driving arrests as a testament of reduced incidences of drunk driving, the sad fact is with fewer resources for law enforcement, many drunk drivers are simply never caught.

That is unless they are involved in a fatal or injury crash.

As recently reported on AbovetheInfluence.com, the information below is a reminder the damaging effect of alcohol can have life long consequences:

In 2006, more than 19% of drivers ages 16 to 20 who died in motor vehicle crashes had been drinking alcohol.

Source: Dept of Transportation (US), National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA). Traffic Safety Facts 2006: Alcohol-Impaired Driving. Washington (DC): NHTSA; 2008 [cited 2008 Oct 22]. Available at URL:http://www-nrd.nhtsa.dot.gov/Pubs/810801.PDF

Of the 1,746 traffic fatalities among children ages 0 to 14 years in 2006, about one out of every six (17%) involved an alcohol-impaired driver.

The younger you are when you start drinking, the greater your chance of becoming addicted to alcohol at some point in your life. More than 4 in 10 people who begin drinking before age 15 eventually become alcoholics.

Source: NIAAA; Underage Drinking: A Major Public Health Challenge, 2003

Keep yourself and your family safe. Speak up when you see a friend or loved one who has had too much to drink. Most importantly, do NOT give alcohol to minors with the misguided belief you can teach them to drink responsibly while intoxicating their brains.

A wonderful advocate once told me, "You will survive your child's anger much easier than you will survive their death." Believe me, she would know.

Want more information and resources? Click the logo at the top of the story to go to Join Together, a prevention professional based information resource, or click here to go to Above the Influence, a teen and parent support based organization: ABOVE THE INFLUENCE.

When you know the facts, the decision is easy!

Celebrate Alcohol and Drug Addiction Recovery Month!

2010-09-13T15:11:00.000-07:00

At a very early age I learned that alcohol and drug abuse and addiction permeates every segment of society. The face of addiction is the face of your neighbor, family members, friends, and loved ones.

While media images create a denizen characterization the truth of the matter is doctors, teachers, nurses, dads and moms, sons and daughters are the faces of addiction. Parents, grandparents, loved ones, and colleagues are struggling with addiction, or working every day to maintain their sobriety.

September is Recovery Awareness Month. Do you know someone who recovered from alcohol or drug abuse, or addiction? Celebrate their recovery. Congratulate them on their success!

Know someone who needs help? Now is the perfect time to connect with resources that can assist you in learning more about the brain injury that triggers the disease of addiction and how to help. Click on this link for valuable information in taking that critical first step, or in supporting those you know who are in recovery: http://www.recoverymonth.gov/

Want to plan an recovery event? Click on the resource above to get all the information. Make this September a month to remember for someone you care about and celebrate recovery!

Shhhhh! It's a Secret! Mrs. Oregon International, Deanna Bebeau is 50!!

2010-09-05T10:11:00.000-07:00

With months of planning, some pretty elaborate ruses to cover tracks, and an event worthy of it all, Deanna Bebeau was completely taken aback as she entered her surprise birthday party.

Deanna's husband Bud contacted her closest friends early on for some help. He wanted to pull off a surprise celebration for his wife's 50th birthday.

We were all in! As the plans came together and the date grew close it was to everyone's amazement that we were able to keep Deanna completely in the dark about her big day.

Mrs. Oregon International director Lesley Nardini and her husband Carlo served as official hosts for the party. Following instructions we all parked away from the Nardini home so Deanna would not recognize any cars.

Lesley and Bud concocted a Mrs. Oregon appearance to Deanna's beloved charity, Relay For Life, to get her to Lake Oswego. Relay staff were in on the plan and helped make it all very real as Deanna cross checked her schedule to ensure she had all her bases covered for her role at the Relay For Life "fundraiser."

Not a complete ruse, Deanna's husband asked that in lieu of gifts for Deanna, party attendees offer a donation to Deanna's favorite charity-Relay For Life. Everything came together, perfectly!

With party guests all in place, Deanna and Bud arrived at Lesley's home in preparation to change and get ready to go to her fundraiser appearance. As she entered Lesley's family room Deanna lost her breath as everyone shouted, "HAPPY BIRTHDAY!"

First to give the golden girl a hug was April Bebeau who drove down from her base at Ft. Lewis, WA, to wish her mom a happy birthday. Then the hugs just kept coming as guests took their turns welcoming Deanna to her party.

Still in a state of shock, Deanna kept looking around the room at all the friends gathered, shocked that we had kept the secret. Quite honestly, we were all pretty proud of ourselves proving we were able to pull off such a big clandestine operation!

Fun was had as everyone chatted, watched the University of Oregon game, looked at a photo montage Deanna's mom sent of the birthday girl from her childhood, and a televised stream of photos of Deanna played on the computer screen.

More fun was in store as we all played "pin the crown on the birthday queen." Clearly my skills at this party game have not improved over the years as I was out of the running early!

Lesley made a tiramisu cake that was nothing short of FABULOUS as the golden girl's birthday cake. Blowing out the candles and making her wish, we know one thing is certain, Deanna will never forget the day, or how some of her closest friends kept the biggest secret from slipping.

Happy birthday, Deanna! Welcome to the "fifty IS fabulous" club!

2010 Beauties of America Pageant A FABULOUS Event!

2010-08-27T11:03:00.000-07:00

What an absolutely wonderful end to what can only be described as a brilliant turning point year for me as I headed to the Beauties of America pageant to crown my successor. The big surprise of the weekend? It was none other than one of the leading national women's publications, MORE Magazine, who sent a writing and photography team to cover the entire event!

Beauties of America has a very long tradition of celebrating beauty and achievement at every age. Women from across the country converged in Myrtle Beach South Carolina to compete for the titles of 2010 Beauties of America's teens through 50s and up, vying for the prestigious national crowns. In fact, it is the first such pageant system to recognize that women of all ages should be celebrated and has spent the past 26 years doing precisely that.

Arriving for the weekend event, my first duty was to join my sister queen Jillian Dansko-2009 America's 20s in greeting the delegates as they arrived for orientation. Always a joy to be around, Jillian was her usual ebullient self and we had a lot of fun welcoming the ladies.

Following the afternoon's orientation sessions the ladies returned to their rooms to get dressed for the elegant red carpet event that soon followed. The ladies were treated to an evening of gowns, crowns, and tons of pictures.

The evening closed with a workshop from the 2009 queens offering advise and last minute encouragement to all the ladies.

All the while MORE Magazine staff mingled and mixed with the ladies to get a feel for what was so special about this pageant experience and learn about what motivates women age 40 and over to compete in pageants.

The following morning it was interview time and the ladies each had a panel interview with the judges for the event. As 2009 America's 50s I had the privilege of greeting each America's 50s delegate and calm some last minute nerves as the ladies prepared to go into their interviews, and had more photos taken by official pageant photographer Paula Preston.

After a fun lunch and informal roundtable discussion with the MORE Magazine writer, the ladies began rehearsals for the stage production. Tim Kretschmann of Pageant Cast was also on hand to interview the ladies for his national podcast.

Proving to be the gracious and wonderful man he is, Tim saved the day for me when I learned my farewell speech would not play on the audio equipment. Tim ran to Office Depot and got he necessary recording media for me so my farewell would be perfect. You can listen to his coverage of the pageant by clicking this link to hear his interviews with the 40s and 50s contestants and the 2009 Beauties of America national queens: PageantCast.

That evening, greeted with thundering rain all of the ladies were whisked away to Planet Hollywood. The delegates were transported in a stretch limo Hummer for a dinner as celebrities.

My sister queens and I had fun turning the tables and cameras, on the photographers as we snapped photos of all of them taking our pictures.

The evening ended just as the skies opened enough for the traditional queens photo in front of Planet Hollywood. Paula Preston was camera ready and you can view all the photos on her website under the "events" section at: Paula Preston Photography.

The following morning it was down to the wire as the ladies continued with rehearsals. Lunchtime was spent exchanging gifts and in a new twist for this year, a raffle to win some exclusive Beauties of America items including a gorgeous denim jacket, fleece blanket, and sparkling jewelry (provided by national director Jennifer, in the pink jacket).

In the evening it was showtime! Many asked me if I was sad to have to say goodbye. Short answer, not at all! Being the national spokesperson and titleholder for women over 50 was the thrill of a lifetime, and I enjoyed every minute of it. As the result I have so many opportunities waiting for me that I am ready to move on to those with a grateful heart.

The most fun for me was in spending some wonderful last moments with my sister queens, Karli Barnett-America's Teen, Jillian Dansko-America's 20s, Jessica Cassidy-America's 30s, Sam Britt-America's 40s, and our FABULOUS director and former America's 30s queen, Jennifer Reed. And, of course, awarding so many lucky women the recognition they deserved on stage.

Anticipating the announcement of the winners was as nerve wracking as when I was competing! With a couple of Oregon contestants in the mix, I was of course hopeful for them both. That is Oregon's own Tamara Wissbaum-Western States 40s on the left and Oregon's 30s Amy Pludeman on my right.

As my sister queen Mrs. Oregon International 2007 Tamara Wissbaum was named 2010 America's 40s, I wanted to do cartwheels down the stage! I was thrilled when outgoing 40s queen Sam Britt permitted me to help her as she crowned Tamara.

Then it was time to say goodbye. As I made my way down the stage for my final walk, my wonderful husband and a very dear friend were there to cheer me on. It was the perfect ending to a perfect year.

A huge THANK YOU to MORE Magazine for coming to the pageant, and the fabulous photo shoots. Be looking for the story in a future edition of MORE Magazine on newsstands slated to be released sometime after the new year.

Most importantly, my heartfelt gratitude to Jennifer Reed for making this such a wonderful experience! You are a woman of character and honor, and I appreciate the privilege to be able to now call you my friend.

Congratulations to all of the 2010 Beauties of America queens-Kathy Lauer-America's 50s, Tamara Wissbaum-America's 40s, Siouxzan Moore-America's 30s, Jana Murrell-America's 20s, and Brooke Hidde, America's Teen.

See you all next year in San Antonio, Texas as Beauties of America continues to grow! As for the 2009 queens, we will be there with cowgirl boots and hats on, cheering the 2011 delegates and our successors!

Doernbecher Children's Hospital Storybook Playhouse Fundraiser

2010-07-24T12:46:00.000-07:00

From designers, carpenters, and retailers, to painters, and people who had a desire to be helpful, teams of volunteers with many talents gathered to create the most incredible storybook playhouses for a good cause; Doernbecher's Children's Hospital. The playhouses, which go up for raffle today, represent months of work and planning.

Doernbecher's Children's Hospital provides critical medical services for some of the regions most seriously ill or injured children. I personally know a number of families whose children received care at the hospital. In fact, as recently as 18 months ago, a dear young woman to me, Miss Teen Oregon International 1st runner-up Crystal Gregg spent well over a month recovering from a serious medical emergency. Her life was saved at Doernbecher's.

So when the call came from my FABULOUS friend Kate Kristiansen for help in painting a princess pink playhouse for raffle, I said sign me up! Wearing my favorite "paint pants" and my sparkling Beauties of America 50s crown (as requested by Kate), I donned my gloves, grabbed a brush, can of paint, and was on my way.

Joined by fellow volunteers of team "Kristiansen," Ron Bergman, David, and Kate's dad, the pink, purple, and green paint flew up on the house as Kate's dad secured flashings and gave a good going over to ensure all was hoyle for the lucky new owners. In addition to managing the work on two houses Kate made certain our team was fed and refreshed ordering pizza and drinks to keep us fueled on what was a sunny, warm day. As you can see I earned the nickname "spill more, Gilmour". That is paint on my face and Beauties of America's 50s tee-shirt!

The houses, complete with finishing touches like curtains and interior furnishings, are now on display at Bridgeport Village Shopping Center. Shoppers can view them, and buy tickets for a chance to win their favorite right at Bridgeport Village.

Needless to say, I will be purchasing a handful of tickets for the pink house. It's my granddaughter Maddie's favorite color!

Celebrating Mrs. Oregon Int'l 2010, Deanna Bebeau!

2010-06-27T19:46:00.000-07:00

Former Mrs. Oregon International titleholders, contestants and future queens gathered today to wish the very best of luck to a special lady. Mrs. Oregon International 2010 Deanna Bebeau was the person everyone was gathered to see as friends and former queens spent an afternoon of fun, fashion and yummy food as Mrs. Oregon International 1997 & state pageant director Lesley Nardini hosted the wonderful send-off.

Guests signed a special book of well wishes for the queen of the hour, as ladies reminisced and shared advise for Deanna as she heads in a few weeks to the national pageant, in Chicago. Of course there were plenty of opportunities for photos and cameras snapped away while the ladies enjoyed each other's company. It was all over way too quickly.

I know I speak for so many when I offer my very best wishes to Deanna as she vies for the title of Mrs. International 2010. She is such a FABULOUS friend to so many, and truly a remarkable woman. Good luck and know you are loved beyond measure here at home!

Advancing Federal Legislation for MADD

2010-06-10T14:47:00.000-07:00

There is no excuse for drunk driving, period. No amount of equivocating will suffice when the devastation of death and painful, life altering injuries are the result.

Since my family was seriously injured in a head-on collision nearly 30 years ago, I have committed myself to doing all I can to support the prevention of impaired drivers on our roadways. Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD) has lead the way in advancing legislation at the State and Federal level to ensure lives are not destroyed by the simple act of going outside and being in the wrong place at the wrong time.

Please join me in this effort by clicking the link below and informing your Congressional representative that you support MADD's efforts to pass ignition interlock technology that will prevent an alcohol impaired driver from being able to start a car and drive.

Send this letter to your Congressional representative by clicking here.

The life you save may be your own!

America's 50s Debra Gilmour Featured with Tim Kretschman on Pageant Cast Radio

2010-06-06T20:43:00.000-07:00

Recently, I had the pleasure of interviewing with Tim Kretschmann, the voice and brains behind one of pageantry's best national media outlets.

Tim was his usual hilarious self and we had a fabulous time chatting about recent pageant doings, and my year as America's 50s. It was also a chance to catch up with him about some of my sister queens whom he also interviewed for his show. As is so often the case with Tim, the time went all too quickly.

To listen to the interview click here: Pageant Cast with Tim Kretschman. I hope you enjoy the broadcast!

Debra Gilmour and MORE Magazine's More.com Pair Up Again

2010-05-24T17:34:00.000-07:00

In a world of instant communication and leveraged opinion about the ideal appearance for women, I decided that at my age (53 in a few short weeks so I've been at this game for a while) I am going to speak up.

As the mother of two daughters and a grandmother to one, I am going to hold accountable those who would like to idealize a standard that has young girls at the tender ages of 8, 9, and 10 dieting to try and look like an image of "perfection" which is anything but. I am horrified to see beautiful women like Jennifer Aniston and Courtney Cox admonished by the media for "packing some extra pounds," when both are physically fit instead of dangerously thin.

MORE Magazine's More.com permitted me the opportunity to do so by publishing my latest submission, "I Am Not Fat." I hope you enjoy!

The Best Part of Being Mrs. Oregon International, "Haz-Bin" Status

2010-05-20T18:55:00.000-07:00

"Haz-Bin." The term was coined years ago by the founding director of the Mrs. Oregon International pageant, Dee Dee Brant. Today, the title "Haz-Bin" is the one former Mrs. Oregon Internationals revere and are most proud to be privileged to call their own.

The best part of being a member of the Haz-Bin Club as it is known, is lending a helping hand to the new Mrs. Oregon as she goes about traveling the state promoting her platform and preparing to represent our wonderful Oregon at the Mrs. International pageant. Recently, it was my turn to chauffeur our lovely Mrs. Oregon International 2010, Deanna Bebeau (my roomie at the Beauties of America pageant in 2009), as she attended appearances and had her official photo shoot (that is Deanna in her white, Royal Highness tee shirt).

On what turned out to be a blip on Oregon's otherwise cold, grey weather calendar, Deanna and I caught a wonderful day of sunshine and fun. We headed to Colleen Cahill Studios to meet up with makeup artist extraordinaire M'chel Bauxal (between Deanna and me) and Colleen for an afternoon of beauty queen glamour.

After getting gorgeous and capturing that perfect shot for Deanna's official photos, we hopped into my car, putting the top down for the ride home. And so the sisterhood continues. Now I wish Deanna would come back and bring the nice weather from the southern part of Oregon to the northern reaches, again. We're freezing up here!

Marquis Family Crowns Portland Rose Festival Queen of Queens

2010-04-21T20:30:00.000-07:00

The Oregon Golf Club hosted over 400 people including the family and friends of over 20 very special ladies as they attended the 16th annual Portland Rose Festival Queen of Queens Tea. Marquis president Phil Fogg and his staff ensured every detail was perfect to make it a wonderful experience for the 2010 Court of Queens.

So all the guests could get to know all the ladies, the court of queens each had their own special poster that comprised photos from every part of their lives from childhood to the present. A beautiful commemorative program feature a photo and biography of each queen.

Guests enjoyed a fabulous lunch including my personal favorite, cake with white frosting for dessert! The queens in their finery and wearing their crowns and sashes were treated to an afternoon of recognition that was truly astounding.

Each lady was personally introduced as they were escorted to the stage. The queens were each presented with a rose as a video picture collage`of their lives played for all to see on two huge screens.

One could not begin to imagine the amazing list of accomplishments the Court of 2010 had to their credit. Wing-walking (Ruby, pictured with her family was that particular dare devil!), riding two horses at the same time while standing (think Annie Oakley), world travel, serving their country during the War, completing their education (some after age 50) all while raising families (including the family pictured which includes FIVE generations of gorgeous women the youngest of which is three months old!), managing marriages, community service and often times careers.

A huge thank you to Marquis president Phil Fogg and his staff, and the Royal Rosarians for a remarkable day for an incredible group of women. It was an honor to be a guest at your event!

The littlest guest at her great, great-grandmother Ruby's special day was Teagan. As you can see, this little darling is destined to wear a crown of her own!

Beauties of America Queens Cheer on Teen, Miss & Mrs. Oregon International Contestants

2010-04-11T15:10:00.000-07:00

It was a night of queens as several 2010 Beauties of America titleholders joined me in cheering on the contestants of the Teen, Miss, and Mrs. Oregon International pageants last night.

Beauties of Americs-Southwest's 50s Kathy Lauer, and Oregon's 30s Amy Pludeman joined me as we arrived for the event. I had the chance to introduce the ladies to each other, then we were soon joined by Christine Wooly, Oregon's 40s.

We were all gathered to see the lady of the evening, 2009 Beauties of America-Oregon's 40s Deanna Bebeau who was competing for the title of Mrs. Oregon International. (Tamara Wissbaum, Western States 40s and Mrs. Oregon Int'l 2007 was busy back stage as producer of the pageant so we didn't get an opportunity to grab her for a photo)

As my roommate at the Beauties of America pageant last year, Deanna Bebeau was such a wonderful friend and support to me. As a former Mrs. Oregon Int'l myself, now it was my turn to cheer my friend on in her bid for the Mrs. Oregon Int'l crown.

Deanna shone all evening. It was a surprise to no one when she won not only the Fitness award, but the People's Choice award. Audience members were entertained as we anxiously waited the results.

Mrs. International 2008, Laine Berry (who kept us smiling all evening and did an outstanding job as MC for the pageant!), held the final envelope with the winner's name. The crowd erupted as Laine called out Deanna's name! The new queen nearly sank to the floor, and we silently worried she might not be able to get up. But, Deanna composed herself to receive her sash and crown.

A wonderful bid of congratulations also goes to Monica Atkinson, Miss Oregon Int'l 2010, and Bronwyn Gibson, Miss Teen Oregon 2010. Both young women will also make fabulous representatives for Oregon in the coming year. Monica and I first meet a few months ago and have become fast friends.

To my wonderful friend, Deanna, my heartfelt congratulations. I am thrilled for you! Welcome to the sisterhood of Mrs. Oregon International. (L to R: Dee Dee Brant-1991, Lesley Nardini-1997, Kym Wylder-2000, Kim Takla-2004, Tamara Wissbaum-2007 (2010 BOA Western States 40s), Debra Gilmour-2008, Sandra Herder-2009, Deanna Bebeau-2010)

And to my Beauties of America friends, I look forward to seeing you all together in August!

Celebrating Our Daughter's Visit Home

2010-03-29T16:01:00.000-07:00

To say life has changed dramatically in the past 15 months would be an understatement. One of the biggest adjustments for my husband and me was the move of our youngest daughter Hilary to Washington, DC, to start her career as a Congressional staffer (that's her with Maddie).

Having an empty nest meant a number of things including a remake of a room that held a decade of memories from junior high dances and high school hallmarks, to college mementos. It took me a progression of months to slowly clear out bits and pieces of my daughter's life as I prepared to make different use of the space that now sat vacant, but clearly still contained the spirit of its prior occupant.

As Hilary settled into her new life, boxes of her possessions made their way to her apartment on Capitol Hill. This left me with the conundrum of what to do with her old room.

On the one hand I had lots of new closet space. On the other hand there was a cavern of emptiness where the daily machinations of her life used to be.

At midnight last evening Hilary arrived home for a short weekend visit while conducting official business. She settled into the new "guest" room painted the shade of Tiffany blue she had selected, but I never quite got around to putting up in her old room before she left for the east coast.

Though just down the hall from her former room, the "guest" room has a familiar flair. The black wrought iron bed that she slept in all those years was still waiting for her. Her dresser was situated with a few of her favorite mementos from her childhood. The art she collected in high school and college was hung with love on the Tiffany blue walls, and the antique brass "fairy lamp" she used for bedtime reading/studying since high school was burning softly when she arrived home.

With the time difference it was past 3:00 a.m. her time as Hilary sank quickly into her old bed in her new room. The next morning I was in "mommy" heaven as I fixed her breakfast, a mug of coffee and got her on her way for a full day of work.

Since Hilary's time was limited we tried to make the most of it. Cam and I scheduled dinner with Hilary and a friend of hers from Oregon, her sister Megan, brother-in-law James and little niece Maddie at one of Hilary's favorite haunts, Red Robin. (Camera shy as always, she no longer cooperates when good old mom is looking for snapshot moments so granddaughter Maddie and mom Megan happily oblige me!)

The weekend went all too quickly.

As I went about tidying up the guest room for its next visitor, I could still feel my daughter's energy in the room. Maybe it is wishful thinking, the obligatory "forgotten item" (this time it was her umbrella), or maybe it is something more. From my mommy perspective I could not help but linger in the room for much longer than was necessary as I relished the time my daughter was home.

Luckily her older sister, my daughter Megan, is now a mom, too. She also is accustomed to knowing exactly what to say as I tearily call her in the midst of another "mommy moment" of missing her sister. And so the role of motherhood goes....

America's 50s and Oregon's 30s Meet Up At Miss Oregon Preliminary

2010-03-25T14:32:00.000-07:00

In support of a couple of little sister princesses participating in the Miss Lane County, Miss Linn Benton, Miss University of Oregon, and Lane County's Perfect Teen scholarship programs, I headed to Eugene, Oregon to cheer on the 40 plus ladies vying for their chance to go to the Miss Oregon Scholarship program later this summer.

The house was packed as the families and friends of the contestants gathered to cheer for their contestants. As it turned out, I was seated next to Britanee Buckingham's family who had a lot to celebrate at the end of a long evening.

Congratulations to Miss Lane County - Kaila Curtis, Miss University of Oregon - Nichole Mead, Miss Linn-Benton - Brittanee Buckingham (who also was the physical fitness award), and Lane County's Outstanding Teen - Alexandra Amber.

It was also an opportunity to meet Beauties of America-Oregon's 30s queen, Amy Pluedeman. With all the excitement of the evening Amy and I talked about the fun in store as we both will be heading to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina later this summer for the national pageant.

Congratulations to program executive director Nicole Akins for a fabulous event! Good luck in Seaside, ladies!

Crowning A New Springfield Marquis Rose Festival Queen

2010-03-06T19:48:00.000-08:00

For over 100 years one of the biggest annual events on the west coast is the Portland Rose Festival. For a few weeks in June, Portland becomes the mythical realm of Rosaria reigned over by junior and senior queens in a celebration of the beauty of the rose which grows so prolifically in our region.

What girl doesn't love wearing a sparklie crown on her head regardless of how long she has been on this earth? So it was as the ladies of Springfield Marquis gathered on Friday for the crowning of their Rose Festival Senior Queen's court representative. As the Beauties of America's 50s queen I was thrilled when I was asked to join in the crowning of their royalty.

Bruni Patterson (picture with me on right), activities director, and her staff had the center beautifully decorated with balloons and of course, gorgeous pink and red roses. Residents from the center gathered to enjoy live music, refreshments, and sit in anticipation of who would be crowned queen.

As I listend to the accomplishments of Ruby Winthrow who was selected queen (pictured on left), I was truly awestruck. A college educated woman who raised a family, she is also a world traveler visiting far away places like Egypt (which included riding a camel), wing-walking on an airplane (can you say moxie?!), and so much more. Still she was brought to tears when hearing her name called as the 2010 queen. Her princess, Thelma Gardner (pictured right) was equally as impressive with a list of life long accomplishments.

It was also a chance to chat with many of the wonderful people who are a part of the Springfield Marquis community, including last year's court. Thank you Bruni, James Edmonds, and the staff and residents of the Springfield Marquis for including me in the wonderful event.

Next stop? The coronation tea in April where the local queens will gather to learn who is crowned the 2010 Rose Festival Senior queen to reign in June during Rose Festival. I have my fingers crossed for Ruby!

Happy Valentine's Day!

2010-02-16T11:54:00.000-08:00

I admit it. I LOVE snow. Lots of snow. Unfortunately, Oregon's Willamette Valley doesn't get much of the white stuff and by mid-February many here in the rainy state grow weary of the wet, grey days. That would include me!

So when my husband said, "Pick a destination, we are going away for Valentine's Day," my spirits and Google search for dog friendly establishments went upward. Nearly 200 miles away and somewhere near the 6,200 foot level of the Cascade Mountain range of central Oregon to be precise.

With a three-legged, epileptic dog who also suffers severe separation anxiety, dropping Jake (the Wonder Dog!) off at a kennel was not an option. With family unavailable for Jake sitting duties, finding dog friendly establishments really narrowed down the field of possibilities, but Sunriver Resort laid out the welcome mat for Jake and us!

When we arrived the snow level was a bit low even at Sunriver, but true to his word my husband gave me snow for Valentine's weekend. We spent the first day hiking the scenery on the way to Mt. Bachelor, and it was beautiful! We found one of the largest ponderosa pine trees I have ever seen, climbed on ancient lava beds, and saw LOTS of snow!

Valentine's Day was spent on the snow shoe trails of Mt. Bachelor in what can only be described as perfect snow conditions. This time out, Jake wasn't so keen on the snow for some reason.

Ironically, previous snowfalls have seen him jumping for joy and playing like a child in it. So there we were, Cam carrying Jake (all 23 pounds of him!) along the trails so I could enjoy the hike. (NOTE: We've decided next time we are bringing a sled, packing him in his sleeping bag and pulling him along with us!)

When we returned to the parking lot, Jake made a B-line for the car as soon as he saw it!

Back at Sunriver, we had a FABULOUS Valentine's Day dinner specially prepared by the resort chefs, then settled in by the fireplace at day's end. It was the perfect way to celebrate. I LOVE my husband!

As for Jake he was just happy to head home... This Valentine's Day stuff was all a bit too much for our little pound puppy.

"Maddie Lou Who" Turns Two

2010-02-03T07:39:00.000-08:00

It was a giant day for a little girl. With every wake-up a new beginning and life an adventure, turning two is not something our granddaughter really thought about. But on Maddie's special day, family from across Oregon came to celebrate our littlest member's big day in lady bug style.

Maddie was a bit overwhelmed at the sight of every person she knew all gathered at the same time in her home. In a sea of legs, she observed something was different and went along with the flow of things enjoying all the love and attention she was showered with during the afternoon.

Mommy and Daddy covered every detail from the lady bug decor and Maddie's matching dress, to the guest list. With Maddie's friends and cousins in attendance, she was very happy to share her good fortune and lady bug cookies specially made for the occasion.

When it was time for the birthday girl to blow out her candles on her "happy cakes", Maddie was genuinely surprised, but did the quick math and surmised it was all about her. The look on her face was priceless when she realized everyone was singing happy birthday to her!

The best part from Maddie's perspective was receiving her first "green" car, a red Fred Flinstone two door coupe complete with peddles, steering wheel and a turn key ignition. All the furry friends in Maddie's menagerie got a turn taking rides after a quick lesson from Papa on how to back up and get going.

The following morning with all the festivities still fresh in her mind, Maddie asked if there were any more "happy cakes." This child is definitely from my gene pool!

Debra Gilmour, America's 50s Joins NW Pageant Queens For Informational Workshop

2010-01-30T14:53:00.000-08:00

Today, pageant titleholders and hopeful contestants of numerous systems from Oregon and Washington gathered in Lake Oswego for a full day workshop to share information, learn valuable competition tips, and make new friendships.

At this year's annual event the ladies had a full slate of presenters including Mrs. International 06 Suzy Bootz, Mrs. Oregon International 07 Tamara Wissbaum, Mrs. Oregon America 07 and Mrs. Oregon Int'l 04 Kimberly Takla, the reigning Miss Oregon Teen USA 09 and 08 Miss Oregon Int'l Cara Nardini, Miss Oregon Int'l 09 Jessica Carlson and Miss Teen Oregon Int'l Sheilja Patel, as well as fitness experts, and interview coaches from whom the ladies received valuable insight about all things pageant. As the 2009 national titleholder for Beauties of America's 50s, and former winner of Mrs. Oregon International (2008) and Mrs. Oregon America (1988), I shared the Keys To Successfully Promoting Your Platform and Title, drawing on my experiences.

Attendees had chances to win door prizes, receive gifts from sponsors and take home lots of information about competing for local, state, and national pageant titles. It was also a chance to "talk to the experts" one on one during lunch as the queens divided up, giving every attendee a chance to chat with a queen or two per table and take lots of pictures.

Thank you Lesley Nardini, Executive Director of Oregon International Pageants for asking me to be a part of this fun and fabulous event. It was great to see so many titleholders together from across many pageant systems, and sharing their passion for pageantry!

A Very Merry Christmas!

2009-12-29T12:01:00.000-08:00

With little ones in our family anticipating Santa's arrival, our youngest daughter home on Christmas break, and only days to get the house back in order after some major, unexpected home repairs, with a lick and a prayer everything came into place just in time.

It was years since I had gone to visit Santa, so I was thrilled when my daughter Megan asked if I would like to meet her at Santa's chalet for my granddaughter's visit. Braving 30 degree temperatures, Maddie, Mommy, Daddy and I queued up outside for her chance to give Santa her wish list.

Maddie and I played while Mom and Dad held her place in line. Once inside, she wasn't all that certain about the jolly old elf, but after he handed her a candy cane, all was well in her world! She waved goodbye to Santa, photo suitable for framing firmly in my hand.

On Christmas Eve, Maddie, and my nieces Emily and Brooke were mesmerized with all that was going on as our family gathered for dinner, and opening presents.

Once dinner was served it was time for dessert. The girls were very happy to join in a tradition my mom started when I was a child of having a birthday party for Jesus. With a cupcake and candle on each girls' treat, we sang happy birthday, and made a wish. Then it was time to open gifts.

Watching little girls dive into Christmas presents with all the innocence and joy of childhood was gift enough for all of us. But, everyone had something under the tree. With the zeal of the almost two year old child she is, Maddie took over gift disseminating duties from her great grandfather, my dad (who looks remarkable like Santa with his white beard...).

Soon the little ones were in their PJs and heading home to hop in bed to wait for Santa. As my daughter, husband and I tidied up after the festivities we looked around and reflected on how lucky we are for these moments.

Early this morning we put our daughter Hilary on her flight back to Washington, DC. It was bitter sweet to watch her head through security on her way back to her new life. It is true, you never stop being a mom!

But, I reminded myself how lucky I am as a parent to see my two, beautiful daughters thriving as young women who are creating lives of their own. Yes, Christmas was a wonderful time in our home.

As I look to 2010, I just know it is going to be a fabulously wonderful year for all of us!

Miss Oregon & Miss Oregon Teen USA Pageant

2009-11-30T09:22:00.000-08:00

Oregon crowned two new queens as the Miss Oregon & Miss Oregon Teen USA pageant was held over the weekend. Kate Paul of Bend was crowned Miss Oregon USA 2010 and Cara Nardini won the Miss Oregon Teen USA 2010 title to the cheers of a standing room only crowd.

Carol and Bert Lukens put on a fabulous show. I was treated like a queen during the event with front row seats for a great view of the competition. Joining me was fellow Beauties of Amercia-Oregon's 40s queen Chris Wooley as we settled in for an evening of fun.

With two young ladies in the Teen division and two in the Miss for whom I was cheering, I was on pins and needles for all four of them. Cara of Lake Oswego, is the daughter of Lesley Nardini, Mrs. Oregon International director. Cara was Miss Oregon Teen International when I was Mrs. Oregon International so I will always hold a fond place in my heart for her. She is a wonderful young woman. It was no surprise to me that her fellow competitors voted Cara as Miss Teen Congeniality, too.

Sara Crawford of Tualatin is the daughter of Libby, Mrs. Oregon America director. I have known Sara since she was just a little girl, too. Sara's affable nature and responses to her interview questions had me smiling throughout the night, what a charmer! Sara also did an outstanding job and placed in the top ten.

Congratulations also to two wonderful young women, Emma Pellet who placed in the top ten, and Monica Atkinson (in the gold gown) who finished as 1st runner-up to Kate Paul, Miss Oregon USA 2010. Expect to see both of them in the future on a national pageant stage!

The event was also a chance to catch up with many of the Mrs. Oregon queens past and present, from both systems, in attendance. Two of those former queens who had prominent roles were Tamara Wissbaum (Miss Oregon USA 1987 and Mrs. Oregon International 2007), and Kim Takla (Miss Oregon USA 1986, Mrs. Oregon International 2004, and Mrs. Oregon America 2007) who did an outstanding job as they served as MCs for the show.

Congratulations to all the ladies for a wonderful show. Something tells me Oregon is going to be front and center in the top ten at the Miss USA and Miss Teen USA pageants!

Happy Thanksgiving!

2009-11-27T10:11:00.000-08:00

As families grow and add members, traditions change. So it was with our family this year.

Since my son-in-law had family visiting from out of state, my daughter came up with a wonderful idea for Thanksgiving. Knowing it would surely be a very busy day for them, we decide to celebrate Thanksgiving breakfast! And what could be more fun than seeing our granddaughter Madeline first thing in the morning. Breakfast it was!

Pumpkin pancakes with turkey bacon and eggs topped the menu. Maddie greeted us at the door still in her PJs and quickly ushered Papa and Gigi into the kitchen to see what mommy had cooking on the stove.

Once we were done dining on breakfast, it was play time! One little girl with four adults made for a busy girl. We learned the Maddie "wobble," a dance that includes jumping, kicking, twirling, and wobbling (and should NOT be attempted on a full stomach!), played with puzzles, musical instruments, and each other as we made a choo-choo train and chugged about the house.

After changing into her special outfit for the day, Maddie took pictures with my camera (she knows exactly how to make my iPhone camera work), and shared them with everyone.

At that point it was time for us to head home to get the turkey in the oven. As I prepared all the usual trimmings I found myself slicing apples for a Waldorf salad, something I've done year after year.

I set aside a half a green apple to make slices as I had done so many times before for my daughter Hilary, who loves them. But this year was different. This year would be the first Thanksgiving without her at home.

As I sliced away all of the sudden I realized Hilary would not be bounding down the staircase to grab her plate of apple slices. I had a "mommy moment." I called her sister. I had a good cry, then we both had a good laugh as Hilary texted me a Thanksgiving message from Washington, DC, oblivious that her sister and I were talking about her.

Yes, with the passing years, traditions change. But then that is what Thanksgiving is all about. Giving thanks for what we have in our lives with the knowledge that each day is a blessing.

America's 50s Debra Gilmour Featured on Pageant Blog, God Uses Broken Vessels

2009-11-27T09:19:00.000-08:00

One of the unexpected and delightful consequences of pageantry and the Internet is the two work in tandem to connect women working on similar paths in the arena of advocacy. One such person who has made it her mission to bring daylight to the work of women in pageantry is author and blogger Angela Briedenbach, Mrs. Montana International 2009.

Angela recently contacted Beauties of America national director Jennifer Reed to request an interview with me, which I was very happy to do. Below is a link to my interview with Angela:

God Uses Broken Vessels

Thank you for the opportunity to share my story with your readers!

Debra Gilmour Featured on MORE Magazine's MORE.com

2009-11-19T13:49:00.000-08:00

Writing was an outlet I enjoyed during childhood. I was very content taking pen to paper with no expectation of sharing with the rest of the world. As I got older, nothing changed. It never occurred to me to submit my work.

Several months ago an interesting message captured my attention. Not knowing how the whole process worked I responded to a request for stories issued by a major women's magazine targeting women over forty.

And so I have learned, patience is a virtue! Earlier this week I received from their staff a message informing me MORE Magazine was featuring a story I submitted for consideration, months ago.

Thank you to the staff at MORE for including me again in your online publication.

A Wedding Of Epic Proportions!

2009-11-16T16:37:00.000-08:00

What do you get when two entertainment professionals decide to get married? You get a wedding of epic proportions!

Bride M'chel is a well respected celebrity hair and makeup artist whose clients include a future president and his wife, film stars Dakota Fanning and Alicia Silverstone, and reality TV stars including Amy Roloff of Little People, Big World. Groom Dennis is a television executive producer with his own company, Dark Wing Productions. The guest list was a who's who of every corner of the entertainment industry.

With instructions early on this would not be your traditional wedding, M'chel went about planning for her big day.

Yesterday, months of planning came to fruition as M'chel and Dennis exchanged wedding vows in front of hundreds of friends, family members and colleagues.

Dressed in her favorite shade of ice blue, the bride was radiant in her custom designed gown that included a 27 foot train. Her groom was suitably attired in shades of blue, too. The wedding party offered the contrast of black and red, as did the gorgeous flowers and rose petals scattered about the aisle and forming a giant "G" where the two spoke their vows.

The bridal party got things going with a dance down the aisle to the strains of violins playing AC/DC music. Soon guests were also rocking along as it came time for the bride to make her entrance. Stunning in her satin gown M'chel held firmly on to her father's arm as they made their way to the alter.

After some fabulous words of wisdom from the minister, the two pledged their commitment to each other in front of their guests, and were pronounced husband and wife.

Then the party began!

Guests walked the red carpet into the reception as half a dozen paparazzi snapped pictures. A video booth was set up for guests to leave a video message for the newlyweds.

Oregon's fabulously renown musician Michael Allen Harrison greeted those taking their seats with his melodic piano playing skills. As the newlyweds arrived, the party kicked up a notch!

A video presentation of Mr. & Mrs. Gleason as children, messages from friends who could not be at the event, and a tape of Dennis' live television proposal of marriage to M'chel appeared on two large screen televisions for all to view. Guests played a version of the newlywed game to release their tables to enjoy the buffet.

Then it was time to cut the cake which consisted of numerous layers including a floating layer of jewels. In a move that surprised many of us, the newlyweds got a bit messy with their first bites!

The fun really got rolling when it was time for the groom to toss the bride's garter. In a handoff at the reception, M'chel's garter was given to another female guest for Dennis to find in a game of "hot or cold." Dennis zeroed in on potential ladies until he hit pay dirt as Amy Roloff of TLC- television's Little People, Big World vamped and revealed she possessed the garter.

It was then time for the single ladies to try and catch the bouquet. M'chel parted with her toss bouquet as one lucky lady landed the beautiful flowers for her very own. Then the dancing began.

When it was time to wind down, Micheal Allen Harrison gave one final performance of a song he composed specifically for M'chel and Dennis. It brought down the house.

The bridal party had one last duty to perform, too. Gathering on the dance floor we did our best rendition of the Von Trapp family's "So Long, Fawell..."

The evening ended as everyone headed outside to say goodbye to the newly married Mr. & Mrs. Gleason. Guests lined up with sparklers shining a path to the car as Dennis and M'chel made their way their 1932 limo.

In a final surprise for Dennis, M'chel had a helicopter waiting a few blocks away to wisk her new husband around the city before retiring for the night. Congratulations, Dennis and M'chel! A wonderful time was had by all! As you can see the wedding planners finally collapsed after a job extraordinarily well done!

Mrs. Oregon America Pageant Fun

2009-11-02T12:17:00.000-08:00

As a former Mrs. Oregon America (1988-yikes that was a lifetime ago!), it is always fun to return to the pageant and see the crowning of the next lucky lady. Last night it was Mrs. West Linn, Joy Huston who got the shock of her life as her name was called as Mrs. Oregon 2010.

The evening began with a truly impressive ac-cappella rendition of our national anthem by outgoing 2009 queen Joelle Rankin-Goodwin. Then the competition phase of the pageant began (that's Joelle backstage ready to rock the house!).

As the judges decision was tallied, Joelle's husband Bob offered some humorous advice for the future "Mr. Oregon" then spoke of his wonderful wife. Joelle shared her thoughts on her year as it was time to say goodbye, then the judges decision was read. The new Mrs. Oregon 2010 is..., Joy Huston!

With her one year old son cheering mommy on, Joy's little guy, football firmly in hand, stayed awake the entire time and was a trooper. He was even ready to get in the pictures afterward as you can see!

Former Mrs. Oregons greeted their new sister queen to the fold after the pageant. Joy got a taste of what the year ahead will be like as she posed for tons of pictures with family, friends, and fans.

One of the special treats of the night went to Mrs. Medford, Deanna Bebeau. To the complete surprise of Deanna her dear friend Kathy Lauer (a wonderful lady well known and adored in pageant circles) made the trip in secret from Arizona to support her pageant sister. After the event Deanna, Kathy (whom I was thrilled to meet in person-photo coming soon I promise!) and I headed to one of our favorite Italian restaurants for some well deserved pasta.

Thank you Mrs. Oregon director Libby Crawford for a wonderful event. Joy is cetainly in for the year of a lifetime!

Halloween Fun!

2009-11-02T11:37:00.000-08:00

At 21 months of age, my granddaughter Maddie is just beginning to understand special days and celebrations. This Halloween was her first attempt at trick or treating.

A true girly girl, Maddie loves to dress up and was quite happy to get in her costume. This year my daughter decided to make a fifties sock hop girl outfit for Maddie. With a pink poodle skirt (complete with rhinestone chain), ponytails, and Maryjane shoes Maddie delicately knock on our door.

Thrilled to see our dog Jake, Maddie was already satisfied that trick or treating was her kind of fun. As she came into our home and received her treat she wanted to share her good fortune with Papa and Jake and started handing out her already acquired goodies.

A few minutes later she zeroed in on Papa's calculator. Candy was soon forgotten for more cerebral pursuits. I think if she received calculators from every house she visited trick or treating for the duration of her outing, she would have been just as happy.

Next year mom and dad are pretty sure Maddie will have her own idea of what she wants to be for Halloween. But for this fifties girl, the selection for 2009 could not have been more perfect!

Taking Time For Life's SImplest Pleasures

2009-10-22T17:27:00.000-07:00

The day I turned fifty the gift my daughter and son-in-law gave me was the news I was going to be a grandmother. What a welcome to that golden age which is sometimes dismissed as a hallmark of the best being over.

Instead it was the signal of the infancy of what has proven to be the most incredible time in my life! My little birthday present (also known as Maddie) continues to bring joy in our lives in ways I could not dream were possible. Today was one of those days.

From the moment I rang the door bell to my daughter's home I could hear Maddie excitedly calling my name, "Gigi!" As mommy opened the door Maddie ran to wrap her arms around my neck in a hug that could melt ice bergs.

At a time in my life where possibilities abound and life is busy, my granddaughter's excitement reminds me we often get so enthralled in our vocations and avocations we sometimes forget to stop for a moment and take in the simplicity and wonderment of a less than two year old child.

And so it was that during my visit Maddie and I danced on the family room floor to her favorite song as she showed me her "GaGa kick." We laughed, played with my camera, and got silly. My granddaughter shared her fishy crackers and "chee" stick with me as we spoke in her special little language that most don't understand. Maddie and I understand it perfectly.

When it was time to leave I was reminded of the importance of enjoying the simplest of things in life. Spending time with Maddie was a moment that I would not have traded for all the flash bulb or client possibilities in the world.

On Maddie's orders I cleared my calendar for the remainder of the day. It was precisely what I needed. She's a genius!

Beyond 50s Radio Interviews Debra Gilmour, America's 50s

2009-10-20T12:05:00.000-07:00

As a member of the Baby Boom generation I've spent my entire life as part of the largest segment of the population in America. So it is no surprise media and marketing experts have tailored their efforts to my age group.

On the cutting edge of what the boomer generation will want next, Beyond 50s Radio is uniquely focused on addressing the issues of importance to those of us who have "been there, done that" and are moving on to our next adventure.

This morning, show host Daniel Davis and I discussed everything from healthy lifestyles and advertising strategies for the Beyond 50s generation, to what it is like to be the national fifties representative for the Beauties of America Pageant. Included in the mix was my personal mission to dispel the myths surrounding age and attractiveness.

Daniel also taught me the newest slogan for boomers; "fifty is the new seventeen!" What's not to love about that? Midlife keeps getting more fabulous by the year!

Thank you Daniel and Joy Ramos Davis, Daniel's behind the scenes go-to person who keeps everything running so smoothly, and the Beyond 50s audience for welcoming me to the show. Want to learn more? Subscribe to the Beyond 50s e-newsletter and tune in to the entire live interview by clicking here: Beyond 50s Radio.

Sterling Reference Labs Welcomes Beauties of America's 50s

2009-10-16T20:40:00.000-07:00

One of my goals as the 2009 titleholder for Beauties of America's 50s is to bring much needed attention the issue of alcohol and drug abuse prevention and treatment. A key partner is making this goal a reality is the nationally recognized Sterling Reference Laboratories, of Tacoma, Washington.

Sterling truly has proven to be the gold standard when it comes to lab services for businesses and government agencies that require drug testing to ensure the public's safety in the fields of transportation and healthcare. Their state of the art lab services and testing protocols ensure compliance with federal standards, and assist the addictions treatment field in serving those who are receiving care for their disease.

Working with Sterling President Evans Calas and marketing manager Melissa Peterson on several projects I traveled to Tacoma to meet with them and share a bit of good cheer to the hard working staff (it is the first time a beauty queen has come to visit, albeit dripping wet from a strong rain storm!).

Thank you Evans and Melissa for the wonderful welcome that included an announcement on the welcome board at the front of the building!

Portland Go Red Luncheon Proves To Be Nothing Short of Fabulous!

2009-10-14T17:33:00.000-07:00

Each year the Greater Portland Go Red For Women luncheon committee dedicates itself to organizing a fantastic, enjoyable fundraising event that is the life blood of the American Heart Association's efforts to educate, advocate and support research for cardiovascular disease.

With over 350 business executives, healthcare professionals and Go Red advocates in attendance, Go Red For Women luncheon Chair and KGW-Newschannel 8 general manager DJ Wilson (pictured with me above at right) launched a picture perfect event, today. It was my privilege to work with the committee and DJ as publicity chair for the luncheon.

The luncheon officially was kicked off with KGW news anchor and Go Red Ambassador Brenda Braxton opening the program. In a break from the traditional invited speakers presentations, Portland's beloved actor, singer, author and The Oregonian columnist Margie Boule` facilitated her version of a five minute party.

Selected presenters each had five minutes to convey their personal stories from life saving CPR, to an incredible love story of the heart. (AHA staff proved their technical wizardry with great audio/visual effects throughout the show, too!)

Stealing the show and the hearts of everyone in the room was the eight year old daughter of AHA volunteer Kerry Shanks, Maria. Motivated by her mom's philanthropic affiliation with the Go Red program Maria originally prepared her presentation to share with her classmates at school.

After several unsuccessful attempts to get her teacher's approval to make her presentation, Maria was afforded the opportunity to share her work with hundreds at the luncheon. Dressed in a pretty party dress to match the theme of the day and introduced by her beaming mom, Maria eloquently presented a five minute speech expressing why heart health and understanding the signs and symptoms of cardiovascular disease is so important. She brought down the house!

The event concluded with the announcement of the 2010 Go Red Ambassadors. Congratulations to Cindy Tortorici, Kathy Ryan, Kellie VavRosky, Leslie Gregory, Pat Hallgren, Teri Miller and Brenda Braxton who will spend the coming year sharing their personal stories of how cardiovascular disease changed their lives, and appear in media campaigns and at speaking engagements on behalf of the American Heart Association.

The results of the day are still being tallied, but at last count nearly $100,000 was raised to continue to fund education, advocacy, and research efforts. From all angles it was truly a wonderful day had by all (and a great chance to catch up with my baby sister, Sara pictured to my left!).

Thank you to everyone involved in making this year's Go Red For Women luncheon a FABULOUS event!

KATU-TV2's AMNW Welcomes American Heart Association Volunteers

2009-10-02T18:52:00.000-07:00

With less than two weeks until the Greater Portland Go Red For Women luncheon, America Heart Association volunteers headed to Portland television station KATU-TV2 to share with viewers the upcoming event. Sixteen volunteers dressed in red filled the studio audience and had the pleasure of chatting with co-hosts Helen Raptis and Dave Anderson about the upcoming event while enjoying the day's slated program.

Tickets are going fast, so if you would like to join in the festivities on October 14 at the Governors Hotel, hurry and click this link to buy your tickets now: Go Red For Women Luncheon

Colleen Cahill Studios Photo Shoot Includes Hiking and Climbing, Just What This Oregon Girl Loves!

2009-10-01T14:42:00.000-07:00

One of the many wonderful things about living on the west coast? The beauty of the area is a huge attraction to those with artistic talents.

One such person is Colleen Cahill, owner of Colleen Cahill Studios. Colleen grew up in the Portland/Metro area so she knows some of the best natural attractions Oregon has to offer. She also understands how they can factor into her craft, photography.

On what literally turned out to be the last day of summer in Oregon (its been cool and rainy ever since), Colleen, her trusty assistant Debbie and I ventured to some gorgeous sites to take my official Beauties of America 50s photos. First stop, the parking lot of the studio for some fun shots with my car.

Then, we piled wardrobe and equipment into her van and headed off to the Sandy River. In flip flops that matched the red gown I was wearing (of course!), we traipsed through sand and blackberry bushes as she found the perfect lighting. After a wardrobe change I was hiking barefoot across water in a gown, up rocks along the river's edge to a spectacular vantage point.

The link (see below) to the raw images tell the story. Colleen is an amazing photographer capable of turning the ordinary into the extraordinary. Thank you Colleen for some truly remarkable pictures. I have quite a story to tell about how we actually got them!

Colleen Cahill Studios Facebook Link

Greater Portland Go Red For Women Luncheon Just Two Weeks Away!

2009-09-30T10:58:00.000-07:00

What makes your heart healthy and happy at the same time? It would have to be the 5th annual Greater Portland Go Red For Women luncheon!

Slated to be the best yet, the annual event is poised to make every heart happy with a wonderful lunch, FABULOUS goodie bags, super raffle items and a silent auction that includes some amazing prizes (including a Colleen Cahill Studios photo package with hair and makeup by celebrity stylist M'chel Bauxal)!

Well loved local TV celebrity and author Margie Boule`will host what is slated as the best quick and concise series of heart healthy ideas from soup (literally!) to nuts (and bolts) of things you can do every day to keep yourself and your family heart-smart.

My sister and daughter are joining me again this year for a family fun get together at the luncheon complete with lots of pampering and girl time. With a strong history of cardiovascular disease in our family, we want to do everything we can to keep ourselves and our loved ones heart healthy!

Tickets are still on sale, but seating is limited so click the headline above and get yours, now! Looking forward to see YOU at the luncheon. Look for me, I'll the one wearing a red dress~

Click here Greater Portland Go Red For Women Luncheon info

Portland FUSE An International Success!

2009-09-26T12:07:00.000-07:00

When I was asked to MC the Portland FUSE, a charitable event for Portland Fashion Synergy, I was honored to do so. I had no idea when I agreed to do the show that it was an international fashion event that would be seen around the world!

It was a thrill to MC the event with Daniel Nieh. Daniel is an internationally know model and served as official translator for international sponsors of the 2008 Bejing Olympics. During the evening's festivities Daniel translated a welcome message to the audience from lead Chinese delegate Li Gang, and portions of the show for the delegation.

The delegation arrived in Portland, Oregon from China this week to visit with Oregon apparel giants Nike and others and discuss collaboration opportunities for Chinese and Portland fashion professionals. The visit culminated in a fusion of two global fashion networks in an event of international proportions last night at the Portland FUSE event.

Oregon fashion experts Kerry Shanks and Jillian Rabe first visited Kenan Province in April of this year. After a very successful trip, the two, along with fashion designer and PFS president May Tee created the vision for what turned out to be an incredibly spectacular event last night, Portland FUSE.

At the invitation of Kerry, I had the privilege of lunching with the Chinese delegation prior to the show. Though I speak zero chinese, we were able to enjoy a wonderful lunch nonetheless, and departed looking forward to the evening's big extravaganza.

Oh what an event it turned out to be!
Along with the Chinese delegation, elected officials from Oregon and Portland's fashion elite had front row seats to a design event that featured Chinese and American collections. Attendees had a chance to bid on pieces from the collections donated by the designers, as well as win a trip to Bejing in a silent auction held after the show.

Photographers and media from the USA and China attended the show to cover the event. After the show the Chinese delegation enjoyed posing for media photos, and wanted their picture taken with "the American beauty queen."

Thank you to our Chinese guests, Kerry Shanks, and Jillian Rabe for including me in this exciting event. I had a blast!

To learn more about Portland Fashion Synergy, click here: PFS

James Taylor + Oregon=FABULOUS!!!

2009-09-22T09:43:00.000-07:00

My best friend Kathy Shepherd and I, along with our husbands, are huge James Taylor fans. So when she called to tell me she had purchased James Taylor concert tickets for my wedding anniversary, I was speechless.

Kathy and I’ve had a long running repartee about James Taylor. She’s convinced my husband Campbell is James’ twin brother and nicknamed Cam “JT” from the moment she met him (more on that later). When she told me the date of James Taylor’s Oregon concert and that she had four tickets in row two, I knew she meant business.

The evening began with dinner at the historic Jacksonville Inn, just across the street from the site of our nuptials. Both events converged into the perfect evening as Kathy, her husband Joel, Cam and I enjoyed a fantastic concert in a celebration that was positively, without exception, FABULOUS!

Proving he is still at the very top of his game, James Taylor wasn’t preceded by a warm-up act to get the crowd ready, he knew it was him we were there to see. And, oh my, did he deliver! (NOTE: Like a good girl, I did NOT take pictures at the concert least I have my camera confiscated!)

Taylor’s mellifluous voice was as crisp and clear as the late summer evening itself. For over two and a half hours James performed song after song, with no intermissions. He gave us a peek into his life and sense of humor between songs as he mesmerized the crowd with stories and his impish references to the ribald.

He also paid tribute to a lost friend and musician, John Hicks, who haled from Talent, Oregon, just up the Interstate from the concert venue. Taylor softly spoke of his missing friend, whose sister and mother were seated in the audience. Then he gave a very eloquent rendition of Fire and Rain.

Toward the end of the concert Taylor invited the audience to get on their feet and join him. Well you didn’t have to ask Kathy or me twice!

We both bolted as our husbands looked on in amazement. Within seconds we were front and center at the foot of the stage, just feet away from him as Taylor brought the concert to a close.

The robust crowd was not quite ready for the evening to end. As the noisy throng cheered on and on, Taylor and his band returned to the stage for a three-song encore. There Kathy and I stood, six feet away from Taylor as he continued for an enthralled crowd.

The encore left everyone smiling and cheering as the act concluded for the night. The evening was nothing short of spectacular!

Taylor ended the concert reminding those who had been drinking (and there were plenty) to find a ride home, and "don't drink and drive." The alcohol and drug prevention, treatment and recovery professional in me wanted to jump up and thank him, yet again!

As for Kathy, she is now more than ever, convinced Cam is related to James Taylor. To her credit both men have the same incredible blue eyes, dashing dimples, and impish sense of humor. Taylor is Scottish. Cam is a first generation American whose father, and all those that proceeded him, are from Scotland. (I must admit, at times the similarity is a bit uncanny...)

For now, Kathy will just have to live vicariously as Cam does his best JT impersonations and dances like only a true Scotsman can. As for the plate specially selected by the Jacksonville Inn (pictured above), I think it best sums up the evening, fabulously special!

MORE Magazine Selects Debra Gilmour For Reinventors Hall of Fame

2009-09-08T13:26:00.000-07:00

It started in May 2009 with an email from MORE Magazine asking subscribers to write in to the publication with stories about how they reinvented themselves after age 40. Taking the bait I wrote my story about competing in a pageant after age 50, certain it would fall into the email reply abyss.

To my complete amazement, they posted my story on their online version of the magazine! (See right hand column for the full story.) Shortly afterward I received a message from the magazine's editor-in-chief asking me if I would be willing to go the New York City for a photo shoot (which will appear in the print edition of the magazine in the near future).

Today, MORE Magazine sent an email featuring a story titled, Reinventors Hall Of Fame. Thank you editor Stephanie von Hirschberg for including my submission among the twelve selected for your article. I am humbled to be in such wonderful company, and to have the privilege to represent America's women 50(+)! To see the feature Click here: MORE Magazine's Reinventors Hall of Fame

Go Red girls night out, featuring a sneak preview of NBC’s Go Red For Women Presents: Choose to Live

2009-09-04T11:47:00.001-07:00

Looking for something different for girl’s night out? On September 29, join me and a host of Portland's leading executive women as we gather for NBC's big event!

Bring your girlfriends for a night out on the town featuring a special heart-healthy happy hour menu, plus a complimentary chocolate dessert. And don’t miss your chance to win a prize package for an exciting night out on the town that includes dinner at McCormick & Schmick’s Seafood Restaurants and tickets to the Oregon Symphony!

Go Red For Women Presents: Choose to Live is the second annual Go Red TV special hosted by NBC’s Hoda Kotb and featuring Go Red Supporter Andie MacDowell. Brenda Braxton from KGW Northwest NewsChannel 8 will host locally.

Please arrive by 6 if possible…the show begins at 6:30!

McCormicks & Schmick’s Harborside at the Marina. 0309 SW Montgomery, Portland, Oregon 97201.

Limited space available. RSVP Encouraged: 503-233-0100.

Portland Synergy Ramps Up For FABULOUS Show!

2009-09-04T11:23:00.000-07:00

Plans are underway and the city of Portland, Oregon is abuzz as Portland fashion designer May Tee and Pearl District jeweler Kelly Shanks make final preparations for the first fashion event of the fall season-FUSE.

With a fusion theme joining American and Chinese fashion, the black tie event slated for September 25, at the Portland Art Museum is sure to be a fashion forward show stopper! As master of ceremonies for the event, I am anxious to view all the gorgeous fabrics, colors, and styles these two ladies will incorporate into the event.

Don't wait! Get your tickets now and plan to join me! See you on the 25th! Click here: PDXFS

Pageant Cast Features 2009 Beauties of America Winners

2009-08-29T12:16:00.000-07:00

Pageant Cast's Tim Kretschmann is the leading radio and Internet news source for happenings related to pageants. From the biggest (think Miss Universe) to local competitions, Tim covers them all. When Tim talks, people listen!

In fact, Tim's sole endorsement of the year was for the Beauties of America pageant system, which is why I choose to enter the competition.

Today, Tim features several wonderful women whom I had the privilege of getting to know, recently. The 2009 Beauties of America national queens are a truly beautiful group of women with impressive resumes and lists of accomplishments.

Click here to listen to Tim's interviews with each of the ladies recorded during the Beauties of America pageant, held in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina August 13-15. Pageant Cast interviews of BOA winners

On The Fly TV Host Welcomes 2009 Beauties of America 50s Winner Debra Gilmour

2009-08-26T14:48:00.000-07:00

The last time I was on the show, executive producer and host of On The Fly TV program Dennis Gleason proposed to my dear friend and celebrity makeup artisit, M'chel Baxual (pictured in yellow).

Since then he had been waiting patiently for a call from me to let him know the outcome of the Beauties of America Pageant. Needless to say, he and M'chel were very happy to hear about the outcome and wanted to share it with TVC-TV viewers.

Last night, we spent a half hour chatting on his talk show about my recent crowning as Beauties of America 50s 2009 national titleholder, and what I planned to do during my reign. It was such a honor to discuss the pageant system and the wonderful women I had the privilege to meet during the experience.

Afterward I had the chance to meet another guest of the program executive recruiter David Rippentrop (pictured far right), as Dennis and I posed with the shows crew.

Thank you TVC-TV, On The Fly and Dennis for the wonderful welcome home! To view the interview click here: On The Fly TV

2009 Beauties of America's 50s Queen Debra Gilmour Surprises Special Madison House Resident

2009-08-26T13:52:00.000-07:00

Since becoming 2009 Beauties of America 50s national titleholder many opportunities from glamourous to gritty have come my way.

Recently, I was contacted by a dedicated behavioral health professional who works with cognitive and developmentally disabled adults. She was aware of a very special person in her span of care who just loves everything related to pageants. She asked if I would be willing to surprise "Bill" with a visit from a real pageant queen with a crown.

I was honored for the chance and we immediately set a date. Yesterday, I had the privilege of visiting Madison House to meet Bill and introduce myself.

Bill was nearly in tears when I opened my crown box and he saw the beautiful Beauties of America 25th anniversary national crown. He was thrilled at the chance to wear my state crown and sash. As he took me for a tour of his residence (shared with four other adults and care giving staff) he excitedly shared his collection of photographs of beautiful gowns and queenly celebrities.

As we spoke, Bill showed me his pageant wave and we talked about what is involved in being a titleholder. His hands down favorite part of pageants, the gowns. His openness and excitement for the fun of pageantry was adorable and I felt so lucky to be the one to share this lovely person's joy for it all.

As staff snapped away with cameras, he soon shared that smiling a lot is harder than it looks! He admitted his cheeks were tiring from all the posing, but he loved the chance just the same.

With his hand on his hip and still a bit overwhelmed that it wasn't just a dream, Bill and I posed for some final pictures while we made plans to see each other again, soon. Regardless of what other wonderful opportunities come my way, I know my afternoon with Bill will stand out to me as I reflect on my year.

The Bills of the world are truly what being a pageant queen are all about.

So much to celebrate!

2009-08-23T09:22:00.000-07:00

From cousins and kids play, to talking Washington, DC politics, our family got together to celebrate our daughter Hilary's first homecoming since becoming a legislative correspondent on Capitol Hill. (seen between Grammy & Pop Pop)

The color of the day was red (Hilary's favorite!) with balloons, and a decidedly flowery theme. Relatives from all over the state converged on our home to visit and catch up with each other.

Son-in-law James was quite a hit with the ladies of the family as they gathered around him for a few games of catch, kick ball, and general silliness. Later, the girls sipped "princess tea" and munched on yummy cupcakes.

Papa (my husband) gave Maddie our granddaughter a few golfing tips, and great Grammy Allen tried to get in on a bit of the action, too. Still trying to acclimate to Pacific Daylight Saving Time, Hilary (who is a bit camera shy, thus not many photos of her!) enjoyed sharing time with her Grammy and Pop Pop and resting quietly while her younger cousins and niece played.

Though it was a short visit before she had to return, everyone was happy to see each other and were already planning Hilary's next return during the holidays.

Waving goodbye was bitter sweet, but I know it will be a wonderful reunion when she comes back at Christmas!

Perhaps our next party will be a snowy one!

First Stop for 2009 Beauties of America's 50s Queen Debra Gilmour? New York City and MORE Magazine!

2009-08-21T14:28:00.000-07:00

What does a girl do after winning the national Beauties of America 50s title? For me it was a quick trip to New York City for a photo shoot with MORE Magazine. (Yes, that's me sans makeup sitting in the chair-not as glamourous as the previous few days!)

With a target market of women age 40 plus, I was asked to be in the magazine's beauty section. Thrilled for the opportunity, I hopped on a plane from South Carolina to the Big Apple 24 hours after the pageant for an afternoon of pampering, professional styling, and pictures with the pros.

I spent the afternoon at The Studio where MORE Magazine staff, makeup and hair artists, and fashion stylists selected the perfect clothing and accessories for me to model. Then, it was camera time! Photographer Mr. Hagopian made me feel so at ease the photo session went very quickly. The images came out great and I cannot wait to see which one is the final selection for the print magazine.

Though I had a picture taken with the wonderful staff, I can't show you that photo until the print edition of the magazine hits newsstands. I wouldn't want to spoil the surprise of the feature, but I can tell you I loved the outfit and everything that went with it.

This trip was also a chance to catch up with some of my family members living in the city. In the morning, my cousin Mark Egyud his wife Sherri, and two of their children Ruby and Alex, met me at the Maritime Hotel for a quick jaunt to Chelsea Square and lunch while catching up on all the happenings in our family. I wished I had more time to spend with them and am trying to plan another trip, soon.

The staff at the Maritime Hotel made certain my stay was a pleasant one. Designed to replicate a vintage cruise ship, the porthole windows and marine motif made me feel as though I were at sea.

All in all it has been an amazing few days with much more (no pun intended) in store! As soon as I know the release date for the MORE Magazine edition with my feature page, I'll be certain to alert you. Be on the look out for a newsstand near you!

Debra Gilmour Selected National Winner of 2009 Beauties of America's 50s Crown

2009-08-21T11:11:00.000-07:00

Hearing those words, well it was almost surreal. The weekend was such a fun, low stress event that it didn't really feel like a competition. With such an accomplished and beautiful group of women in my division, I was humbled and honored to be selected as America's 50s representative for 2009.

As I realized things were coming to a close, I tried to take it all in. I was thoroughly impressed with the caliber of women, the wonderful program, and most of all Jennifer Reed the national director.

Jennifer and her staff were always respectful, kind, helpful and genuinely nice, making this an event one that I will always be honored to be a part of.

The ladies were all so supportive of each other and we all have new friends that will be a part of our lives if only through emails and phone calls. Two such friends for me are Michele Sharpe (Massachusetts 30s) and Deanna Bebeau (Oregon's 40s), both whom I met through pageantry.

The west coast ladies (seen here: Deanna Bebeau-Oregon's 40s, Ginny Donahoe-Washinton's 50s, Janice Richars-Evergreen's 50s, Carol Milliron of Washington-2008 America's 50s, me, and Jessica Cassidy-California's 30 and 2009 America's 30s winner!) plan to get together in the future to laugh and share the stories of our special adventure.

The best part of the pageant had to be sharing a room with one very special lady, Oregon's 40s, Deanna Bebeau. Deanna was a wonderful roomie, a supportive friend, and a truly lovely person with which to share this experience.

Most of all, her sense of humor kept me smiling and grounded through it all. As you can see from the note she left for me on our bathroom mirror at 3:30 a.m. to catch her plane home, Deanna is one classy lady I am so proud to call my friend:-)

PS: As for the "Idaho" reference, I was the honorary Idaho delegate so we had the entire northwest represented. Like I said, she is a laugh riot!

Interview Day & Planet Hollywood At Beauties of America

2009-08-21T10:43:00.001-07:00

The day began with personal interviews with the official judges. After that it was rehearsal time. Then, the business of the day complete, it was time for more fun, again.

This time it was Planet Hollywood! In true Hollywood glamour style, the ladies put on their red carpet best for an evening of fabulous food and fun.

Our fabulous dinner was followed by a giant chocolate chip cookie for dessert! NOTE: Despite rumors to the contrary, I did NOT eat five cookies at dinner! The staff did however give me four cookies to take home and we will just leave it at that!

All the ladies had a great time chatting and sharing stories as the Hollywood "paparazzi" snapped photos and video of the contestants enjoying the evening and each other.

Then it was another limo ride to the hotel for an early bedtime to get ready for finals the following day.

Beauties of America Queens Turn Rock Stars At Hard Rock Cafe!

2009-08-21T10:18:00.000-07:00

A fter orientation the ladies had a bit of down time to get ready for their rock star debuts at the Hard Rock Cafe`! Each lady expressed her style from jeans and boots, to glittery dresses and everything in between. Then it was off in the Hummer limo arriving in style to the awe of those already at the Hard Rock Cafe`.

As the ladies waited their turns for luxury transport, cameras were snapping in every direction. Tim Kretschmann of Pageant Cast arrived to cover the pageant for his program and became "unofficial" photographer as the ladies asked him to take their photos.

Joy Wadsworth-Alabama's 40s had a great pair of gladiator sandals, which I unfortunately did not get into the pictures (but they were fabulous!). Rebecca Crosen-Virginia's 30s had her rhinestone jacket that I wanted to take home, and we all had a great time noting each other's fashion choices.

My pick for the evening's best dressed was Pinky Carter, Chesapeake Bay's 30s. Pinky lived up to her name throughout the weekend in shades of the color looking fabulous in every selection (seen in her pink dress).

Dinner for me was a Hard Rock cheese burger (pageant or not, I wanted a burger!). As we patiently waited for our food, the "fun table" as we were dubbed enjoyed getting to know each other, share photos of family, and learn more about where we lived.

After dinner it was back to the hotel in our limo.

Then it was back to pageant HQ for a workshop (that is me, Michele Sharpe and Deanna Bebeau all wearing our Crown Chic jogging suits as we head to the workshop!) and then a good night's rest for competition day.

Beauties of America Pageant Begins With Orientation

2009-08-21T09:48:00.001-07:00

With 2009 being the 25th anniversary of Beauties of America, the room was decorated in celebratory style. But the real celebration was the women who would be a part of this hallmark year's pageant. Orientation was a chance to meet all of the contestants, see old friends and enjoy new acquaintances. It was a thrill to see Michele Sharpe-Massachusetts 40s whom I had the pleasure of getting to know a couple of years ago.

My biggest thrill was getting to know Lauren Monahan (the golden girl in the gold jacket)! She has been such an inspiration to me and I was delighted to actually get to compete with her. As expected she was as gracious and gorgeous as ever!

Soon the 50s ladies, the largest group competing, gathered for pictures and introductions. Pictured are Janice Richards-Evergreen's 50s, me, 2008 America's 50s national queen Carol Milliron, Puerto Rico's 50s-Lauren Monahan, and Kentucky's 50s-Deborah Weston (we had the opportunity to meet last year).

Sam Britt, North Carolina's 40s was such a doll, and I loved getting to know her! There were so many wonderful ladies to get to know throughout the course of the weekend.

Beauties of America Pageant Kicks Off!

2009-08-21T09:13:00.000-07:00

The festivities began early as several of the delegates for Beauties of America including my Oregon's 40s buddy and roommate Deanna Bebeau arrived a day before the event began, trying to get a jump on jet lag! Illinois's 40s queen Siouxzan Moore (center) graciously organized a pre-pageant dinner gathering for us that was fabulous!

2008 America's 50s national queen Carol Milliron of Washington state helped kick things off with a warm welcome for everyone as they arrived at the restaurant. Soon a dozen ladies and some family members joined in the meet and greet for a wonderful dinner and time to get to know each other.

After dinner Oregon's delegates (Deanna and I!) headed back to our room for a last bit of rest before the official pageant began.

Addiction Prevention and Treatment Professionals Across The Country Gather For SAAS National Conference

2009-07-24T15:11:00.000-07:00

Next week, several hundred alcohol and drug addiction prevention and treatment executives and professionals from across the country will gather in what is slated to be the most informative SAAS conference, yet. States Association of Addiction Services (SAAS) in partnership with NIATx will afford attendees the opportunity to hear from international experts, learn leading edge technology advances in addiction and brain science, and get a better understanding of the policies driving decision at the top levels of government which effect the field and funding streams.

Keynote speakers include Laura Adams-President and CEO of Rhode Island Quality Institute; Rear Admiral Eric B. Broderick, DDS, MPH-acting Administrator for the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA); H. Westly Clark, MD, JD, MPH, CAS, FASAM-Director for SAMHSA; Timothy Condon, PhD, Deputy Director of the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA); David Gusftason, PhD, Research PRfessor of Industrial and Systems Engineering and the University of Wisconsin just to name a few.

For more information go to: SAAS/NIATx Conference to get all the information and register to attend!

American Heart Association's Greater Portland Go Red For Women Executive Breakfast

2009-07-24T11:03:00.000-07:00

It was an early morning for some of Portland's notable female business executives as the American Heart Association hosted the Go Red Executive Women's Breakfast. The delicious (and healthy!) breakfast and educational seminar on women's stroke symptoms, afforded attendees the chance to learn more about strokes signs and symptoms, risk factors, and also offered nutritional options. The women also had a chance to network with each other around a common cause.

Many thanks to AHA executive director Erin McDonough, Legacy Health Systems, and Dr. Sandy Lewis for a fact filled two hours. To learn more about stroke prevention and treatment, click here to go to the AHA website: www.pdxgoesred.org

Thank You Portland Spa and Boutique, and Pink & White!

2009-07-15T18:24:00.000-07:00

When you have the honor of wearing a crown and sash, the expectation is you are well pulled together all the time. In my case, it is my privilege and honor to have the support and services of Portland's only five star rated day spa, Portland Spa and Boutique, and Pink & White Salon to help keep me looking good!

Donnie Josey (pictured on the left), Pink & White's nail stylist extraordinaire makes certain I look and feel my best for those important events!

Owner Danielle Van Auken is always on the leading edge offering the best services, and doing it in the most relaxing and comfortable environment possible. Once a month the spa opens for a "ladies evening" of pampering, goodie bags, and wine and delicious treats.

Thank you for your fabulous support and wonderful services! To see for yourself go to Portland Spa & Boutique, and, Pink & White Nail Salon!

American Heart Association's Portland Go Red For Women Logistics Committee Gearing Up

2009-07-09T15:36:00.000-07:00

October 14th may seem months away, but for the American Heart Association's Portland Go Red For Women luncheon logistics committee, it is approaching fast. From gift bags to table sponsors this wonderful group of dedicated women are ensuring the fifth annual event will be the best yet!

With the expert guidance of AHA marketing and communications director Rebecca Seebert-Francher (left) and Go Red For Women director Christina Barnes (right) the committee is poised and ready to make certain this year's event will be the one everyone will be talking about!

Would you like to be a part of this wonderful event? It's so easy!

To sponsor a table, donate items for auction, contribute to swag bags, or offer raffle items Call Christina Barnes now for information on how you and your company can become an AHA sponsor.

Call (503) 595-2562, and a member of the GRFW logistics committee will get in touch with you with all the details!

We look forward to seeing you there!

American Heart Association's Portland Go Red For Women Luncheon Plans Takes Shape

2009-07-01T12:56:00.000-07:00

Plans for the American Heart Association (AHA) Greater Portland Division's Go Red For Women luncheon are officially under way. October 14, 2009 will mark the five year anniversary of the A-list event which is slated to be the best yet!

As publicity chairperson for the luncheon, I met with the division's Go Red For Women director Christina Barnes (left) and AHA's marketing and communication's director Rebecca Seebert-Francher (right) to discuss everything from speakers to sponsors in preparation for a fantastic celebration of the Go Red For Women program.

Beginning with a VIP suite offering everything from mini massages to manicures, guests will have to opportunity to get pampered while learning how to stay heart healthy. You do NOT want to miss this event!

Mark your calendars now and plan to join us on October 14 for a fun, fashionable and fabulous luncheon! Want more information on attending the luncheon or serving as a sponsor? Call Christina at 503-595-2709. We look forward to seeing you there!

Oregon Queens Get Super Send-off!

2009-06-27T17:30:00.000-07:00

With a theme of "topping it off in style" with hats, the reigning Oregon International queens had a fabulous send-off, today. That's Jessica Carlson, Miss Oregon Int'l 2009 and me donning our best efforts for the hat competition.

Mrs. Oregon Int'l 2007 Tamara Wissbaum opened her home as the reigning Oregon Teen-Sheilja Patel, Miss-Jessica Carlson, and Mrs-Sandra Herder, former queens, contestants, family and friends gathered for a fun day of pageant fashions and millinery.

Soon all the guests gathered for a

fashion show by the three queens modeling their competition wardrobes. Sorry, no peeking, but I can tell you these ladies are going to look FABULOUS when they get to Chicago!

Everyone nibbled on delicious goodies and cake while catching up, and sharing the latest goings on with each other.

Along with 2009 Mrs. queen Sandra Herder are: 2008-Debra Gilmour, 2007-Tamara Wissbaum, 2000-Kym Wylder, 1999-Julia Johnson, and 1997-Lesley Nardini who is also the Oregon International Pageants executive director (seen below).

Afterward the three queens cut their cake, posed for pictures and discussed schedules as the ladies talked about their itineraries and expectations for Chicago. Good luck to Sheilja, Jessica, and Sandra. We know you are going to represent Oregon in fantastic fashion!

Thank you Tamara Wissbaum for your always spectacular hospitality, and Lesley Nardini for the great prizes!

As for the hat contest? Tamara and I were the big winners!

30 Year Drought In Oregon's Beer Tax Increase Needs You Help

2009-06-15T11:32:00.000-07:00

As parents, spouses, family members, and friends I know each one of us has personally witnessed a family member, loved one, neighbor, or colleague who has struggled with addiction. This physical brain disease is caused by an injury to the brain when exposed to alcohol or drugs, most often in adolescence.

Fully one-third (1/3) of Oregon's eighth grade students admitted to drinking alcohol in the last month according to the Oregon Healthy Teens Survey. Oregon's youth alcohol and drug use rates are much higher than the national average. Tomorrow's addicts are sitting in a middle school classroom near you, TODAY!

And here is why...

Oregon's beer tax, provides the funding for alcohol and drug prevention and treatment funding across the state. It has been 30 years since Oregon increased its beer tax! That's Right 30 years!

Imagine, your employer paying you at the same rate as they did 30 years ago. Would you be able to make ends meet? Would your family have the basic needs to get by on a salary that hasn't been increased in 30 years? If you were a business owner, would you be able to provide services at the same cost as you did 30 years ago?

That is precisely what prevention and treatment professionals have faced for years. Those who made a career commitment and choose to remain in this critically needed field have seen many of their peers leave because they cannot afford to stay. Budget cuts have resulted in the loss of over 3,000 jobs in the field of addictions prevention and treatment.

For those who choose to stay, some have to take second jobs to survive financially. Many qualify for food stamps because although they possess a four year college degree, they still are receiving below poverty level wages for their efforts.

The alcohol industry has had a chokehold on the Oregon Legislature for 30 years to prevent modest increases to the beer tax. In the mean time its own profits have soared beyond even the most conservative estimates!

You don't have to be "political" to be a part of the solution, but you do need to be willing to act when something this important is at stake. I am urging you to contact your legislators today. Without an increase in the beer tax, what remains of Oregon's alcohol and drug prevention and treatment field will not be able to survive.

All you need to do is click on this link: http://www.leg.state.or.us/writelegsltr/, and type in you address and message. The link will automatically deliver your message to your elected officials in your voting district.

Oregon's children have never bee at greater risk for the lure of alcohol and drug abuse and addiction. Please join me in ensuring our children, our future leaders, enjoy a lifetime free from addiction.

They are worth the time and few cents a drink increase.

Additional key legislators in leadership positions who need to hear from you regardless of your voting district are:

House Speaker Dave Hunt, Rep.Davehunt@state.or.us, 503-986-1200.

House Majority Leader Mary Nolan, Rep.Marynolan@state.or.us, 503-986-1936.

Senate President Peter Courtney, Sen.Petercourtney@state.or.us, 503-986-1600.

Senate Majority Leader Richard Devlin, Sen.Richarddevlin@state.or.us, 503-986-1700

House Revenue Committee Chairman Phil Barnhart, Rep.Philbarnhart@state.or.us, 503-986-1411.

Senate Revenue Committee Chairman Ginny Burdick, Sen.Ginnyburdick@state.or.us, 503-986-1718.

Royal Treatment For A Lovely Lady

2009-06-09T17:07:00.000-07:00

When an executive from a Northwest firm recently asked me to help his company give a surprise to a very a lucky woman, I jumped at the chance.

They wanted to give her the royal treatment. We hatched a plan that left one lucky professional ready for the next tier of her career.

Melissa Peterson learned on the way to what she thought was a client appointment, that she was in for a day of royal treatment courtesy of the company and a pageant queen.

After being notified of her good fortune, she was delivered to a predetermined meeting place where I got to introduce myself and fill her in on the rest of her day. I whisked her into my car and we were off to Washington Square Mall for a day of shopping, and a makeover. After the shock wore off, our lucky lady enjoyed a day of personal attention and soaked in all the day had to offer.

Over lunch we talked about fashion tips and beauty queen secrets. Many thanks to Jan at the Washington Square Nordstrom Savvy department for helping me pull together a great collection of business wardrobe pieces for Melissa, and arranging for a facial and makeover at the store's Clinique counter. She looked gorgeous!

As she headed home looking wonderful in one of her new wardrobe essentials, Melissa was walking more confidently, and appearing every bit the marketing professional she is.

My thanks to all involved for asking me to be a part of this wonderful gift.

Good luck Melissa as you launch into the next phase of your professional career. I just know you are going to be fabulous!

Legislative Session Sine Die Count Down Begins!

2009-05-31T17:34:00.000-07:00

In a departure from past sessions of recent memory, Senate President Peter Courtney (D-Salem, OR) announced his desire for the Oregon Legislative Assembly to end the regular session sooner, rather than later, with a target date of mid-June. While it signals an end to flurry of activity in the 2009 session, many issues remain unresolved in these final days.

Two important bills need to be passed before the conclusion of this session.

It has been 30 years since Oregon saw an increase in the beer tax. Prevention and treatment programs funded by the revenue generated from the tax have either evaporated entirely or been severely cut to the point of decimation. Not surprisingly, the rate of underage use of alcohol has jumped dramatically, as has the use of marijuana among Oregon teens. Additionally, Oregonians in the throws of addiction and needing treatment services has soared while access to those services has dropped significantly.

Thirty years ago you could buy gas, bread and milk, all for less than a dollar. We should be so lucky to buy any of them today at those prices! Yet, in Oregon, the expectation is alcohol and drug prevention and treatment efforts can be sustained with no additional revenue. The proof is right in front of us every day; exponential increases in the criminal justice, foster care and child welfare costs driven largely by addiction.

Another critical bill would increase Oregon's tobacco tax. Tobacco, known to be the precursor to so many illnesses including lung cancer, cardiovascular disease, and addiction, this bill would fund additional healthcare services. It would seem an easy bill to support and it is unclear why there is any reticence on the part of lawmakers to move it.

With so little time left before the session ends, along with my colleagues, I will be lobbying the Legislature to get both of these bills passed into law. I hope you will join me in the effort by contacting your elected officials today and demanding these important pieces of legislation get their support.

Click here to send an email to your legislators, today!

More Magazine's More.com Features Debra Gilmour

2009-05-22T08:11:00.000-07:00

Late last week I was stunned to received an email informing me a story I submitted had actually been published on More Magazine's More.com! This morning I received a message from Editor in Chief Lesley Jane Seymour that my story was on the Home Page for the magazine's online version. To link directly to the More.com site and read the full article, you can click on the headline above. Thank you More.com and Ms. Seymour for this wonderful opportunity!

Reinventing Mrs. Oregon

2009 Beauties of America-Oregon`'s 50s Mrs. Oregon International 2008

Colleen Cahill-Photography, M`chel Bauxal-Makeup

Facing my 50th birthday, I decided I wanted a goal that was both fun and challenging going into my golden year. I wanted something that I would always remember. I found all three.

I entered the 2008 Mrs. Oregon International Pageant. A platform based program (mine happens to be alcohol and drug abuse prevention and treatment), this was an ideal opportunity to promote my lifelong commitment to reduce underage drinking and impaired driving. My advocacy moved into a different realm.

My "yeah, I'm fifty" goal was to win the fitness award (there was no swimsuit competition in this pageant). Competing with women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s, I knew the odds were against me. What I didn't realize was the confidence that comes with age and experience also resonates, tangibly.

The woman ahead of me was forty, fit, and had not given birth to children. The woman who came after me was, at a mere twenty-three years of age, younger than my youngest child. (Click here to be taken to More.com for the rest of the story)

Pageant Turns Cupid for Two Dear Friends

2009-05-21T21:19:00.000-07:00

Who knew a pageant could bring the bliss of happily ever after? Well, that is exactly what happened, tonight.

Dark Wing Productions CEO Dennis Gleason met the fabulous Miss M'chel Bauxal (celebrity makeup artist extraordinaire) last year while both were working on the Mrs. Oregon International pageant. And here I thought I was the big winner at the pageant!

Over the coming year friendship blossomed into romance and the rest, as they say, was history.

It was my privilege to work with both of them on various other projects throughout the year. One thing became obvious, these two were smitten. So when Dennis asked dear friend and sister queen Mrs. Oregon International 2007 Tamara Wissbaum and me to help him pop the question, we both jumped at the chance. (That is me with Dennis in the control room getting our signal for the ring hand-off straight!)

It wasn't easy! Dennis wanted to ask M'chel to marry him on live television. No simple feat. But as always, Dennis had a plan.

Tamara and I would be guests along with M'chel on Dennis' television program to discuss our involvement in pageants. M'chel would also be a guest to talk about her involvement in the pageant industry. The stage, as they say, was set. (In the picture above M'chel, center, had no idea she was about to receive a proposal of marriage!)

In the one hour chat show I talked about my reign representing Oregon's women age 50 and over at the Beauties of America Pageant, and my year as Mrs. Oregon International 2008. Tamara shared her pageant career as Miss Oregon USA 1987 and Mrs. Oregon International 2007.

M'chel shared her brushes with celebrities as makeup artist to none other than our current president and his wife when they visited Oregon last year, working on the movie Coraline, and other notables including Tamara and me, of course! Then, Dennis gave me the signal.

Throughout the program, I sat with the ring tucked behind me in my chair (probably more obvious to those watching the program than to M'chel!). At the precise moment Dennis and I discussed, I made the hand-off.

Always one to let her craft speak for her, M'chel who is soft spoken anyway, was speechless. But with the cameras rolling, we had all heard her response to that age old question, "will you marry me?" Yes!

As the happy couple glowed after the show, Tamara and I were relieved the secret was out!

Our best wishes to M'chel and Dennis as they plan their lives together. It could not have happened to a nice couple!

To watch the proposal click on this link: On The Fly.

Miss America Katie Harmon Ebner Crowns Portland Rose Festival's Sr. Queen at Marquis Queens Tea

2009-05-21T16:02:00.000-07:00

It was a day for queens! Dozens of crown royalty from all over the state of Oregon gathered for the annual Portland Rose Festival's Marquis Queens Tea. The tea, which honors senior queens selected from their local Marquis retirement communities, culminates in the crowning of one woman who will serve as the Senior Queen of Rosaria during the Portland Rose Festival.

Honored guest and keynote speaker Miss America 2002 Katie Harmon Ebner offered a moving tribute to the honored court as she shared her vision of what true beauty is while over 400 family members, friends, guests, and Marquis staff enjoyed a delicious lunch. (Yes, that is Katie holding her Miss America crown over my head in the photo!)

After lunch each local queen was introduced and escorted on stage to take their place on the royal court. The Royal Rosarians then sequestered in a room, deliberated, and returned with their selection of the 2009 Senior Queen.

I admit it, I had a favorite. I was keeping my fingers crossed for Ilabelle Oden, Springfield's queen. It was my honor to crown Ilabelle a couple of months ago. (Pictured along with Katie and me are Bruni Patterson, Ilabelle and her two sons seated in front, Mrs. Oregon International 2009 Sandra Herder, and James Edmonds with Springfield staff)

When it was time for the announcement, the lucky lady was Tesse Taylor, a lovely lady from Marquis Piedmont she had the honor of being crowned by Miss America as the 2009 Senior Portland Rose Festival Queen.

After the crowning it was time for pictures and a bit of chatting as the ladies enjoyed the opportunity to get to know each other.

My sincere appreciation to Mr. Phil Fogg, president of Marquis, the Royal Rosarians, Miss America Katie Harmon Ebner and the wonderful Marquis staff. Thank you for including me in this wonderful event.

You really know how to treat a lady like a queen!

Happy Adoption Anniversary, Jake!

2009-05-08T15:47:00.000-07:00

Today marks the fourth anniversary of our adoption of Jake "the Wonder Dog" from the Clackamas County Dog Shelter. It is also another example of how the Universe has a way of taking care of all of us, animals and humans alike.

Shortly before Jake's arrival, my husband, the Director for the Department of Transportation and Development in the county, had another function added to his portfolio, that of Dog Services.

Cam determined the shelter would best meet the needs of residents if it offered adoptions, breed rescue partnerships, and not serve strictly as a "kill facility." Euthanizing animals would be a last resort used to protect county residents from vicious dogs, not eliminate otherwise adoptable pets.

Jake arrived at the shelter as an approximately five year old, underweight dog with what was later revealed to be a severely injured left hind leg. He was dropped off without so much as his name. Shelter attendants were not certain what his fate would be.

Unless someone was willing to adopt a heart broken, badly injured dog, the little fellow's options were quickly running out. The county did not have the budget to incur the surgical costs of repairing the leg and the subsequent recovery period necessary to make this little dog "adoptable."

That same weekend, in a show of support to the staff of the shelter who were participating, my husband and I went to the Portland "Doggy Expo," to say hi. It was there I spotted Jake...

I wasn't certain I even wanted to go to the Doggy Expo. The loss of our beloved little "Flakes," also a pound puppy, had not been that long ago. I wasn't certain I was ready for another dog.

Separated from the other dogs so his leg was protected, there sat Jake, sad and confused. The moment I laid eyes on him, I knew he would be ours.

We headed home with a very frightened, injured little dog who we were certain at some point had a name. So, the name game began.

We went down the alphabet. We called out one name after another to see if we might be able to get a response, perhaps discover his original. Nearly half way through the alphabet with less and less success working hard to come up with "boy" names, Jake lite up when I said that name. We said it again. He perked up again.

We decide to keep going to see if it was a whim, or if we had really hit upon something that sounded similar to what he knew. We kept going back to Jake and he kept responding. Jake it was!

The visit to the vet later the following day revealed the injury to his leg was severe and over two weeks old at that point. The bone was completely shattered, the only option was amputation.

Jake had adapted very well to his leg's limitations, we decide not to amputate. Though not very functional, Jake can stand on the leg for short periods and he suffers no pain since his initial recovery.

Fast forward four years later, Jake is thriving!

His weight has doubled, and even though he has only three good legs he can run with the wind! He struck up a friendship with our neighbor's dog, Holly (with Jake on the patio, in the snow). He loves to help my husband with projects outdoors (that's Jake "guarding" the waterfall before it was complete), will "lobby" for extra walks (that's him climbing on Cam's shoulder, his signal it's time to go!), and waits anxiously every evening at the window for Cam to come home.

As the parents of three daughters, my husband and I jokingly refer to Jake as, "The son we never had." But that isn't really what makes Jake special. No, it is a lot more than that...

If you would like to volunteer, offer to care for dogs, make a donation of food or funds to the Clackamas County Dog Services, or, find a special furry friend of your very own click here: Clackamas County Dog Services.

There is a lot of love just waiting for you!

Trip to Tacoma a Chance To See Washington's Beautiful Coast

2009-05-07T16:35:00.000-07:00

My husband and I decided to make a weekend trip of it recently, after I visited a colleague in the field of addictions treatment who lives in Seattle. My visit complete that Friday, we spent the night in Tacoma and headed back to Oregon on the scenic route of the Pacific Coast.

The USA's northwestern coastline has many characteristics similar to that of the northeast Atlantic coast. From craggy rock outcroppings to secluded beach areas, one thing they all have in common is a spectacular view.

Sometimes those vistas come with a price, however. One such place we visited was Cape Desperation.

The desperation distinction became readily apparent when we learned it was one of the most dangerous stretches of navigable water that ships can encounter traveling to this part of the world. Over the years, many lives have been lost in attempts to cross the bar of the Columbia River separating Oregon and Washington. Thus the legend of lost souls still in the area. We didn't seem to run into any of them, however our trip not completely uneventful.

Cam and I opted for hiking the trails to and from the light house, and seeing the views from a less treacherous vantage point. On one such trail we came face to face with a vicious dog. We had our own moment of desperation!

Just in the nick of time, its owner was able to pick up the 90 plus lbs. animal just before it had little Jake in his jaws! Fierce though he fancies himself, for our three-legged, epileptic pound puppy, it was all a bit much.

At that point we decided we had seen enough of the Washington coast to deem it spectacular, and head home. Jake agreed, he was ready to hop back in the car!

As you can see from Jake's picture, he took it all with a grain of puppy chow in the end, and no doubt had dreams of conquering that big guy in his sleep.

Sterling Reference Laboratories Visit

2009-05-07T15:57:00.000-07:00

In the world of commercial transportation, professional employment screening, and addictions treatment, a little known but very important partner ensures the safety and security of all of us, every day. Sterling Reference Laboratories is a SAMSHA certified, Tacoma, Washington lab providing drug screening, testing and certification services for employers, healthcare facilities, and professionals engaged in a variety of fields from medical services to transportation, across the country.

With a team of committed professionals and a goal of achieving the highest quality of service for all of their clients, Sterling executives are changing the standard of how the laboratory industry does business. Which is the reason why I took them up on their invitation to come visit the lab recently, and experience first hand what the business of lab services is all about.

My work is often closely associated with the addictions treatment community and policies effecting public safety, so it was a chance to witness first hand the rigors of federal requirements when it comes to drug testing. I wanted to see the process, the chain of custody requirements, and the technology involved in to confirm the detection of drugs or alcohol in a person's system.

For the untrained (me!), it was a primer in chemistry that I long thought I left behind in college. From techniques people will attempt to employ to "beat" a test, to the types of substances humans use every day, I was stunned at the sophistication required to stay one step ahead of those engaged in alcohol and drug abuse.

One thing is certain, when it comes to Sterling Reference Laboratories it is about more than just a test confirmation. Thank you Evans, Dr. Baker, Gene, and Michele, for welcoming me into your facility. In an industry that often is overlooked in the discussion of public safety and addictions services, you are providing an invaluable service to all of us. Thank you for your hospitality!

American Heart Association Advocates Lobby at Oregon's Captiol

2009-04-30T16:02:00.000-07:00

Today, fellow lobbyist and American Heart Association public affairs director Alejandro Queral and I met with advocates from several different organizations in a "lobby day" at Oregon's State Capitol. The mission? Bring much needed attention to and a call for legislators in Oregon to pass a tobacco tax for prevention and related health care needs resulting for the damaging effects of smoking. (Alejandro, left, with advocates Margarita and Vansessa Solis, YES House executive director Tanya Pritt, and me on the steps of the Capitol)

Partners from the American Lung Association and healthcare systems in Oregon joined in the effort which included visits to individual House and Senate members, and a mid-day press conference.

Alejandro kicked off the press event with a strong supporting cast of impressive advocates. After his initial remarks, it was my turn to introduce the speakers including Lincoln County Commission Vice Chair Bill Hall representing the Association of Oregon Counties, Oregon Governor's Council on Alcohol and Drug Abuse Programs Chair Stephanie Soares Pump, and the truly impressive mother and daughter team of Margarita and Vanessa Slois.

Vansessa shared the difficulty her teen peers face in resisting other addictive substances such as alcohol and drugs once they begin smoking cigarettes. She also addressed the long term damage to the brain of youthful smokers. Her mother Margarita spoke about the importance for parents to be involved in their children's lives, to set limits, and confront children when smoking is suspected.

I will keep you posted on our success in moving the much needed legislation forward.

American Heart Association Asks Debra Gilmour to Serve On Advisory Board

2009-04-26T17:20:00.000-07:00

In a relationship that began a little over a year ago, I've had the pleasure of working with the Greater Portland and SW Washington affiliate of the American Heart Association in a number of capacities, including most recently as a special featured guest for the 2009 Heart Ball. What a fun and fantastic event!

It has been such a satisfying experience to work with our region's AHA office to bring awareness of cardiovascular disease and stroke to the people in our community. Particularly in light of the three major events in 2008 involving my own family members (my father survived quadruple bypass surgery, my brother received a pacemaker, and I lost of my dear aunt and God Mother to complications related to cardiovascular disease).

In recent meetings with executive director Erinn McDonough, governmental relations director Alejandro Queral, and Cause Marketing director Rebecca Seebert-Francher I was asked to serve in an enhanced capacity for two important goals.

The first is as an advisory member for the Public Policy Board of AHA.

As a registered lobbyist in Oregon specializing in healthcare and public safety issues, my work literally takes me to the front lines and I was happy to be asked to work with AHA in this arena. With a legislative session in full swing, I will join Alejandro this week for an AHA press conference and lobby day at Oregon's State Capitol to encourage lawmakers to pass critical bills to increase funding and public health measures targeting tobacco use and youth obesity.

The second will be to serve as publicity chairperson for the Go Red For Women Luncheon in October. In that role I will be working with the media, business community leaders, related healthcare groups and associations, and the public to make the 2009 GRFW luncheon a fabulous success!

I look forward to my continued association with AHA in these two new roles. As developments happen, I will be certain to post AHA news of opportunities and activities so you too, can join in on some of the fun!

Thank you to the American Heart Association for your continued commitment to heart health and including me in this effort. 2009 is going to be another fabulous year!

Beauties of America Selects Debra Gilmour to Represent Oregon's 50s

2009-04-26T17:00:00.000-07:00

After successfully running for and winning the title of Mrs. Oregon America 1988, I thought my pageant career was complete. Never involved in pageants as a teenager and with opportunities for adult women few and far between in those days, it was mission accomplished in my mind.

Fast forward 20 years. With a birthday goal for my 50th year of winning the fitness award, two decades after winning my first title of Mrs. Oregon 1988, I competed for and won the Fitness Award and the title of Mrs. Oregon International 2008. Three months later I celebrated by 51st birthday.

With the opportunities of such a wonderful year, I also learned many valuable lessons. One such example? For reasons that I am not certain of, when you enter the room wearing a sparkly crown &/or banner, others take notice and listen! It also exposed me to the intense stereotype women still face daily about age and attractiveness.

Enter a new mission; demonstrating that women of ALL ages possess the ability to be attractive and serve as active advocates in their communities. Particularly those of us who comprise the largest segment of the population in the USA today, women over the age of 50.

Beauties of America is a pageant system which recognizes these achievements in a unique format giving women of all ages the opportunity to participate, celebrate and advocate. Separated into decades of age (i.e. Teens, 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and above, etc.), delegates compete with other women in their own age range in interview, fitness, and evening gown competitions. It felt like the perfect fit for me. Last week, I was fortunate enough to be selected Oregon's 50s delegate in the Beauties of America system.

I return to the pageant scene with a renewed sense of urgency and commitment to a platform many advised was "too intense" for the pageant world. "Healthy Families, Safer Communities" focuses on reducing underage drinking, and addressing the dire need for alcohol and drug prevention and treatment across the country.

Women continue to celebrate and draw attention to a plethora of very important, valuable causes and serve as visible and vital partners in an effort to raise awareness. These issues range from autism, addiction, and early childhood education, to cardiovascular disease, Down Syndrome, foster care needs, and so many other important issues facing every day citizens in this country.

In the coming year, I plan to put a visible face on a continuing need to keep our families healthy and communities safe. The plan is also to serve as a reminder that beauty resonates outward, from within, and that woman of every age are attractive. Wish me luck!